Kalyn Raphael

Question:

Thanks for your answer. I have had and have problems i havnt handled yet and were , are too much for me, including things I cant personallx control. Who said life only gives us what we can handle or that we are given problems to overcomethem? That person wasnt a god I dont think. Its like a lot of new age sayings. There is an answer for everything. While many may be true I am in the habit of questioning their validity. Maybe my problems will be resolved under the right circumstances and after some time. But then hnw much time? You haveto know what difficulties are in peoples lives personally. Itr ok for some person, maybe not you to have life coaching clients or sell a personal development course. Life is not so good for a number of people and many would like to improve things if they could. Its easier to be in the flow if you feel good and life is going well for you. I wrote about life flow many yearsago. My friend was into it even before me. I only have mobile internet at present. Im ok but mainly as Im a strong person. In my view I have to be connected to universal flow, people and opportunities. I spend much time alone when not at art school and work. Ive studied lots of these self development subjects before. I do have lots of good things in my life too. Many will inprove over time. I have very little money and much debt so cant do much yet in many areas including seeing my son. So i dont think flow wil solve that immediately. I am always open to possibilities though and not that negative. Just with healthy realism too. Anyway if you have problems as you say maybe I can help you as i have had lots of life experience ok?

Best wishes X

Answer:

Hi X,

I appreciate the offer, but I see that I need to clarify.

I am a spiritual life coach. At this point in my personal path I don’t have “problems” in my life so much as challenges. What I mean by this is that I no longer have the experience of having more than I can handle and I know how to handle things. I know how to work with the flow of life at which point my dreams have come true.

I have worked with many people over the years and I have seen a lot of people go from feeling overwhelmed in life and like they don’t know how or feel they can’t make things work to turning this around. I have had clients go from being unhappy employees to changing careers, status or starting their own businesses.

I have had clients who have a very difficult time attracting or keeping relationships, especially healthy ones, to them attracting the right person and getting married.

I think it is wonderful that you question things. You should question everything, including the way you think and the choices you make in life, as this is what shifts your energy, your life and what you experience.

? Kalyn