Kalyn Raphael

November 17th, 2009 by Kalyn

Allow & Align

I am in a highly creative/dreaming (or attracting) mode. I have been spending time every evening to flow my energy and have now turned the corner into flowing my dreams.

Last night I began to dream about where I want to be in five years, what I want to be doing. During the dreaming I activated this energy and allowed the desire to take more and more shape. Afterwards I worked on aligning my energy to the desire. In the alignment process I found bridges between my days now and my days in my dreams five years from now.

So today I will be bridging this energy. I will be experiencing the energy of my fulfilled dreams and a few manifestations today, instead of waiting five years and shortening the time it will take for my dreams to come forward. Why wait five years?

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Kalyn B Raphael

Learn more about Kalyn & working with her: www.kalynraphael.com

Celebrating

Every Friday, Kalyn and I celebrate. We have a group of students and friends who are actively improving their lives who come and celebrate with us, either at our home or we choose a restaurant in Santa Fe. Since doing so, we have not only seen the manifestation of our dreams and desires accelerate in incredible ways, but we have witnessed wonderful things our students and friends are bringing into their lives.

Why is Celebration a Powerful Path to Manifestation?

There are several reasons why celebrating accelerates your creating process. Here are a few;

1. Celebrating lifts the spirits of all those participating. It raises your emotional tone. As you live from a happier place, you can’t help but to attract higher vibrating things into your life.
2. Celebrating is a form of gratitude. As part of our celebrating process, Kalyn asks each person what they are grateful for in their lives. Everyone then toasts that person and celebrates what they are grateful for, acknowledging what they have received or created. Gratitude is one of the most powerful energies to strengthen manifestation.
3. Celebrating what you have manifested or are thankful for gives you more of what you are celebrating. As you celebrate what you are celebrating, you increase the energy, the thoughts, and feelings around it, attracting even more of it. It is also a personal marker for you giving you a reference point to just how much you are actually manifesting. When doing this people are often surprised at just how many of their dreams are coming true.
4. Celebration is a form of ritual. A ritual, as I am using it here, is something you repeat over time. When you repeat something often for a long period of time, especially when you do it at the same time (such as every Friday), you create energetic pathways for the energy of celebration and manifestation to come through. This empowers your manifestation process.
5. When a group of people with a common Intent come together, such as celebrating what they have manifested or what they are grateful for, it amplifies and strengthens everyone’s power of manifestation. The group synergy is powerful. Plus, having others celebrate your manifestations is a great affirmation.

A celebration is different than a party. A party is for having fun, or meeting people. A celebration is also for fun (we dance, feast, and play games), but also has Intent behind it that everyone shares. In this case the Intent is to celebrate what you have manifested or those things for which you are thankful. Even if your manifestation hasn’t yet taken form, by celebrating something you are grateful for, you will accelerate your manifestation process.

I highly recommend you take on the celebration habit. Not only will you empower your manifestation process but you will have a wonderful time doing so.

Kristopher

Life

Every day I marvel at how amazing life is. It knows us better than we know ourselves and life knows how to take care of us in ways that we barely comprehend, if we are lucky. Life knows what will suit us and what will serve us better than we do because the Law of Attraction simply allows the energy that we are to come forward.

This is a part of the design of life. It brings to us the energy that we are to us so that we may be guided in the right direction every time. In every experience we have, we can allow ourselves to become aware of what we do or do not like about the experience and we can change it. We can became aware of what desires of ours are not being met and we can change this; we can become aware of what we require to be in the flow of our Source Energy and we can allow this to come forward.

The Guidance From Source

We are well provided for by our lives or our Source Energy. Whether we recognize it or not, we are always given what we need to shift our own energy. We have intelligence, the ability to discern, the ability to make choices and the ability to change ourselves so that we may become who we prefer to be.

One of the most powerful and effective tools, or methods, that we have to change ourselves is our imagination. Our imagination is a fun tool because, like energy, it is unlimited. Anyone can imagine anything they choose, which we see in creative story tellers. Because imagination is energy and operates the same way energy does, our imaginations can plant the seed of a new experience for us. Like any seed that is watered and cared for, our imagined idea can grow, attracting more energy to it, until it has enough energetic mass to attract form to it. Another way of saying this is that once we have created a large mass of energy through our imaginations, the Law of Attraction then uses this to attract experiences, people, places and things into our lives.

What You Require

We all require things in life, such as food and shelter. One of the most spiritually advanced concepts that I have ever come across and learned was that what we require, or what we need, is a positive thing, not a negative one. This is to say that what we require, or need, should be seen as a positive thing and not as a weakness within ourselves. People rarely qualify their needs as either genuine requirements for their lives or indulgences that can be damaging, such as the indulgence of an addiction. Spiritually speaking, our genuine needs are the things we need in order to be healthy and whole. These needs are not the needs that are spoken of when an alcoholic says that they need a drink. Quite the contrary, genuine needs are a part of the amazing guidance system that our Source Energy and life have set up to help us along our paths. Our genuine needs point us in the direction of our well-being.

Allow

As multidimensional beings, however, our genuine needs go much deeper than just the needs for food and shelter. The happiest and healthiest people in the world find that they have emotional needs as well, such as the need to have good friends, to be loved and to love their selves; to have their dreams come true, to express their selves and to feel a connection with their Source. A whole person truly has balance in all areas of their lives.

Of course, no one is expecting us to be perfect and have everything we need or desire in life.  However, our Source Energy is giving us the guidance and the ability to raise our energy and put ourselves in the flow of our well-being.

Again, one of the most powerful ways for us to do so is through our imagination. Our imagination allows us to see what we need, what we would prefer instead of what we have, and what we require in order to be in our well being physically, emotionally and mentally. When we use imagination this way, it truly fulfills the need, or the genuine requirement, we have. Our imagination can be used to begin to attract our genuine preferences into our lives, the things that will create well-being in us.

If we were to try to imagine another drink when we have an alcohol addiction we would find that our well-being state is not being met. On the contrary, we would simply be separating ourselves more from our well-being and increasing the addiction.

Fooling ourselves into thinking that we are using imagination to create well-being within ourselves when we are really using fantasy and creating more separation is a common mistake. People often reach for fantasy because it tends to relieve any pain they are feeling, just as a drink or a hit of a drug would, in the moment. In the long run, however, it does not create a new energy for us, the way imagination does. On the contrary, in fantasy our energy leaves us; it goes out to the object of our focus, such as the drink.

Losing energy this way can be very detrimental to us because it decreases our ability to attract what we prefer in our lives.  We increase our ability when we use the guidance in our lives to know what our genuine requirements, or needs, are and use a tool, like imagination, to attract what we prefer for ourselves in our lives.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

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Resistence-Free

“Your dreams are inevitable – how long it takes them to arrive is  just dependent on how much resistance you choose to hold.”

-The Oracle

I love what this world is coming to!

Yes, there are a lot of problems in the world, most of which are getting worse, but they are only getting worse because people have resistance.  You can just imagine what that the Law of Attraction does with that resistance!

The world is truly coming to a place where authenticity will be easier to find within ourselves and where being in our flow will become more and more normal. Authenticity is already natural, though most of us lose site of this and we become normal and in-authentic, like most others. So, you might say that our world is coming to a place where it is becoming easier to return to our natural state of being. That natural, authentic state of being is resistance-free, at which point our magnetism for attracting is huge.

Resistance is a block to our energetic flow. Resistances block the energy of our Source coming down to us, impeding our receiving that energy.

Why not have a resistance-free reality? Why not notice what is bothering you, what is rubbing you the wrong way and release the resistance? Why not allow yourself to be aware of the reistance you have to yourself, flow what you don’t like and come to a place where you love yourself? Love is the most powerful magnetic attractor.

Life is simple. Realizing a resistance-free reality is simple. Us coming to the place where we choose this isn’t necessesarily easy. But the world is helping us, with all its problems. The problems make it easier for us to realize we don’t need problems or resistance. Just joy and love.

And in joy and love we come to live a resistance-free reality!

Why is Resistance So Hard To Let Go Of?

The truth is there is only one reason: we don’t want to let go. Generally we don’t want to let go because we have a misperception within us that incorrectly thinks that if we are not resisting then we won’t get what we want? As if closing the door will allow new friends to come in! Sounds silly, I know, but that is what resistance does.

Stop and think about what you are resisting. I’m very sorry to say that most of us are resisting something all of the time. We are resisting being loved because we think we’ll be hurt; we resist having the life we want because subconsciously we are afraid of what we want. For example, I have a student who has a strong desire for a relationship. However, she is also very weary of men and their motivations. Under these circumstances, how will she be open enough to allow men to be themselves and to come forward in a relationship? Her resistance keeps her from allowing men to get closer to her. On the other hand, if she chose to let this resistance flow away then she would find several men knocking at her door.

Nothing to Fear

In my above example, my student resists relationship because she has been hurt in the past. However, why fear what you don’t want or what has happened in the past? Why resist what you desire  in the present? The only reason to resist your desires is because you are assuming that your desire will include something painful or unwanted. Why make that assumption? Why not paint a dream for yourself of your life the way you want it minus what you don’t want?

Your Source Energy does not seek to bring you a great life with a little torture on the side! Your Source Energy is you! It is important for you to know what you do and don’t want. Resist neither of them and then have the resistance-free and joyful life you dream of!

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.

A message for You About These Times & About Increasing Your Use of the Law of Attraction

These have been turbulent times and it seems as though they will be getting even rougher. It seems that this is the first time that the world has ridden a low together with the world markets having the problems that they are.

Nevertheless, The Oracle says that this time is meant to serve us & a time to increase our ability to attract using LOA (Law of Attraction)-

“These times are offering you guidance – they make you want for your life to have a smoother flow. They help you know Who you truly are, what is important to you and how you truly wish to express yourself. In other words, they help you get deeper and know how you desire your life to be.”

Within us all I think that we know that these times are returning our focus inward toward Who we are and what we want, as The Oracle says. However, I don’t know that we always know how to do this. Here are some powerful ways:

Be Important Enough To Talk With Your God

It is important in these times to connect to Who we truly are, therefore it is important to give yourself permission or time to talk to your Source Energy, your God or your Creator. Many of us grow up believing that we are not worthy of our Source Energy’s ear or that we are not important enough to have an opinion that matters.

This is false. On the contrary, it is very important to speak up for ourselves and to communicate how our life is going. It is even more important to talk to our Source Energy about what we desire. When we do this on a regular basis, we will find that we begin to feel as though we are being heard, as though our prayers are answered and as though we ever receive responses. We also will notice that we are activating powerful energies within us as well as energies of connection to our Source Energy. These energies will attract desirable things to us through LOA.

Have Many Dreams & Desires

We also tend to feel that if we only have a few – or just one- dream, then it is more likely to be granted, since we are not being greedy. We deny our own dreams and desires, as if the dreams that come to us naturally are a bad thing, something we should deny.

Again, this is false. Have you ever noticed that your dreams coming to you are as automatic as your breathing? Have you seen that you wish for things, whether you mean to or not?

Have you ever allowed yourself to feel like your dreams were going to come true and then felt the well-being that accompanies the fulfillment of our dreams? Our dreams do fulfill us, they make us Who we truly are, even when we are just dreaming about our desires manifesting in our lives. Our dreams are one of our connections to our Source Energy and when we allow ourselves to dream about our desires we get closer to our Source. Have you noticed that you feel more loved when you are dreaming? When you are more connected this way, your energy increases. And this, again, increasing your ability to attract what you desire into your life though LOA.

The Actions That Are Called For

These are the actions that we are meant to take now. They are also the actions that many of us will automatically take (or have been) because that is how the energy is flowing in these times. While the world is having difficulties on a larger scale, there really is the opportunity for us to bring a lot of quality, love and fulfillment to our lives. This will be the trend and this will be the direction people will head in. The old days of shopping and being a lot of things will be replaced with less, but more meaningful, things. Quantity will be replaced more and more with quality.

You will find quality and fulfillment in your life when you speak with your Source Energy or your God often and when you allow yourself to have desires for your life. This allowing and this connecting will create a new life for each of us do so. We will leave a more beautiful and meaningful life. We will live the life of our dreams.

How we treat ourselves and what we do in these turbulent times will greatly affect our futures. When you are connected and dreaming you will find that your future will just come to you, you will have attracted it. When you are disconnected and without dreams you will find that the future holds no promise.

Today I allow my Source Energy to support me, as I take care of my family.

Today I allow my Source Energy to send me joy, as I laugh with  my daughter.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me health, as I prepare a healthy meal for my husband.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me desires, as I dream about my life.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me energy, as I attract the life of my dreams.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me challenges, as I unravel what gift my challenges hold for me.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me love, as I love my life.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me experiences, as I allow myself to experience them.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me sensations, as I allow my being to sense them.

Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me change, as I become Who I truly am.

“To have the dreams you desire, you need to be willing to change. You need to be willing to change from not having your dreams, to having them–from not being the you of your dreams, to being him/her. Allow that change in your life.”

The Oracle

Question: I love this quote but am not sure I fully understand it – to see him instead of me? Can you explain this please Kalyn – this could be my final frontier as am only kind, only loving, always sharing and always feeling grateful and visualising yet some block is there as am not allowing my abundance to flourish. Have so much spiritual knowledge yet unless God has a purpose I am not sure of then I have missed something in this…
Bless you – I look forward to your thoughts

Answer:

This quote refers to our self image. We all see ourselves a certain way: for example I have a student who saw himself as not being very worthy or capable in life. However, in his dreams and desires he saw himself as someone with a business of his own and a family.

As he has allowed himself to see the “him” with a business and family, he has begun to identify with a more confidant and capable part of himself (and has been developing this). Today he is engaged and has had his first small business for over a year.

He really began to shift his life when he shifted his self-image, how he saw himself. The more he saw himself as the confident version of himself, the more he became it.

In your case, you want to start to see yourself as the you with abundance. Notice what he is like and really become him in your thoughts, feelings and actions.

Blessings,

Kalyn

We wish you the life you dream of~

In other words, when you address your problem as if you were the you who is living your dreams, as if you were the You who has already realized the life that you desire, then you will address your problems with a higher vibrating energy. Some people think that life brings them “tests” to see if they are ready for the next level. This is untrue, as life only brings you what you asked for.

And what you asked for was your dream, whether you are asking for it consciously or subconsciously. You are always moving in the direction of what you dream of and who you dream of becoming. Life responds by bringing you the energy that you are attracting to yourself, using LOA, through your dream.

When your dreams come to you, knocking on your door, they may look, at first, like a problem or something undesirable. They are not; they are simply the higher vibrating dream you asked for that you simply do not yet recognize, as you are still in the process of raising your energy.

Open the door to your problems and your joys, as they both are a part of the experience of your life that is raising your energy and that is bringing you the life you dream of.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

“Find something you are grateful for in your day today.

As you feel what you are grateful for, notice what it does for your mood.

Notice what it does for your attitude and for what you feel about your life.

Notice if it makes your life feel better, more livable, more desirable,

notice if your desires, your dreams,  feel more achievable.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle