Kalyn Raphael

“Flowing is a natural state to each of you. Every day, and as often as you can remember to do so in a day, allow your energy to flow. This means that you open to your Source Energy’s flow by welcoming your experience and then allowing it to flow, the way a twig flows downstream as you sit on a rock and watch it go by. Welcome each experience you are having and then watch all of your experiences flow down the river of your life. It is only then that you will experience a greater current of your Source Energy. It is only then that you will see the things you desire flowing to you and flowing into your life.”

Today was a wonderful day for no good reason.

Once upon a time – a terrible, uncomfortable and not so-fun time- I used to think that I needed certain things to be happy. There were  things I thought I needed like money, to be intelligence and to be loved by the right people. In other words, if I was doing things “right” then I knew I would be blessed by life. I would have a good life. Yes, I’m saying that I thought that these things outside of me would create happiness inside of me…

Well, once upon a time I was very unhappy. The things that I thought would make me happy or make me feel good were there sometimes and missing at other times but either way I was unhappy and certain life was not only not blessing me, but punihsing me daily! Ouch!

Tonight I watched Grey’s Anatomy and it was a wonderful episode. In the show everyone, of course, has their issues and their problems, but in today’s episode they put all of the ways life is “supposed to be” aside and instead allowed for a wonderful day. They each allowed for theirselves to let go of what they were grasping for in life – being a good doctor that doesn’t lose patience, being a person with money and such- and instead focused on what was there for them. Now they were enjoying something special and feeling good about life, regardless of what was wrong.

Today my daughter and I watered the plants. While I think life should be such that all my trees would be flourishing, I allowed myself to feel sad that two of our trees, including my favorite that I picked out at the nursery, are very likely dead. Very likely. Then I let this flow. And then I enjoyed the beautiful trees that we have.

Today I made lunch and dinner while trying to take care of 10 other things. While I think I would be happier with a maid and a cook, I let myself feel bombarded with life. Then I let this too flow, at which point I easily focused on the joy of the connection I feel with my family and I felt gratitude for the love in my life.

Today we went for a walk with the dogs. While I’m sure I should be walking more to get more exercise, I simply didn’t care. Instead I looked at my three year old and saw that she was really enjoying the dogs running and playing together so I told her that we should run and catch them. She thought this was great and laughed and laughed.

Sure, some things went “wrong” today and there were a few things I didn’t like. If I need to take care of something I will, but in the meantime I’ll let these things flow.

I’ll focus on the things that life did bring me today, the things that brought me joy. The things that made for a wonderful day. Today I allowed for a wonderful day.

Life isn’t perfect and it will never be what we think it should be. Nevertheless, in our Golden Flow(TM) we can allow for a wonderful day more and more often.

Regardless of what experience we have, there are three maybe four energy-feeling reactions for us to go into.  These energy-feeling reactions take us to another energetic world.

Our world is unique to each one of us because for each one of us our own energy determines our individually experienced world.  And we know this, since we don’t bother asking everyone “Have you noticed that Willy Wonka has been hard at work putting chocolate candies all over my office, now that it is Lent?” We don’t ask because we have come to recognize that each person has their own world blessed with their own gifts or haunted by their own Wonka.

We travel between worlds–worlds of energy. These energies are like a drop of water in an ocean. Each drop can be self-contained, but the drop is a part of the ocean, just like a certain energy is just a part of the vast energy in our universe’s flow. However, when you are completely immersed in that drop of water, similar to when we are swimming under water in a pool, that drop is our whole world.

We travel between these ‘worlds’ of energy through one aspect of ourselves: our emotions. Our feelings are what guide us and take us from one world of energy to another. They are the only part of ourselves that can move us around from one energy to another, unless we can perceive energy (what Carlos Castaneda calls negotiating the second attention, or the world of energy).

A mood can put you in a funk. It can bring you down (to a lower energy) and darken your whole day. A joyful event can pick you up (raising your energy) and brighten your day, seeming to then put you in your flow so that things all  just seem to work out. In other worlds, the a feeling took you into an energy and in that energy the Law of Attraction then attracted “gray” happenings into your day or “bright” and positive experiences that kept your joy flowing.

Right now we are visiting San Miguel de Allende in Mexico. The city is beautiful, feminine and holds an emotional aspect to it that illuminates this point. The steep streets can be very narrow and the walls are all at least thirty feet high. Ornate, large doors mark the entrance to the worlds that reside behind these walls. Sometimes there is small shop, just ten feet by ten feet, behind the door. Other times I walk into a huge secret world that opens itself up, revealing a hidden treasure of signing birds, trickling water fountains and a lively buzzing cafe or an art school with an open courtyard filled with sunlight and tall trees.

While walking on the streets not a hint of the tall trees can be seen. It is only when I step into this new world that I enter the sights, colors, sounds, smells and life each space holds. Each unique space is like a castle, a small world onto itself.

To attract what we want into our lives, therefore, really means that we need to enter into the feelings that we prefer. We need to choose the feelings that will open the doors to the world we want to experience. This is how we can most easily attract the life and experiences that we desire.

We feel our way through life, whether we like the feelings we are experiencing or not. Feeling our feelings is what determines whether or not we are connected with ourselves. We also feel our way into worlds of energy. We are guided by our Source Energy though our life journey at all times and in ways that we are only just discovering. One of these ways is though our feelings. When you “get that feeling” you know that intuition is knocking on your door. The knock is guidance though your feeling aspect flowing from your Source bringing you to the door of your dreams.

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Kalyn has been a spiritual guide helping seekers find the way to connecting with their Source Energy, to their dreams and to their well-being for close to a decade. Kalyn works with Kris, her husband, leading journeys, workshops and also gives classes, working in groups and with individuals. Find out about working wtih Kalyn or about downloading free materials at www.Essence-Love.com

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Question:

“hi kalyn, this message has come just at the right time for me… thsi year started out great for me, in the four years since my divorce, even tho i have been happy, i have never been as happy… until i met a man who i really like, and who i believe is the man i want in my life, he is quite newly single, i see him every week, he is my drum teacher. i being the woman i am, asked him out a few weeks ago, and at first he said yes, and then said he just needs some time as he has a lot on his plate at the moment…. my question to you, is how do i attract him into my life…. this is the man i believe would be perfectly suited to me….
i ask my angels to convey the message to him, i try send my own pink light to him,
these last 3 or so weeks i have sunk into a terrible almost depression, i dont know if he is being genuine or if this is a fob off…
i feel like i am writing in an agony column in a magazine, but i am asking you because all your posts are along the line of believe it and it will happen… help,,,,,
love light and blessings xxx”

Response:

We are meant to have our desires, both for ourselves and because it feeds our Source Energy. You are meant to have a loving relationship. However, we all have problems because we are not fully in our Source’s Golden Flow.

By this I mean that one problem is that we tend to not understand why we aren’t experiencing that love, abundance, health, success and so on that our Source is supposed to have for us.

We aren’t experiencing those things because we aren’t allowing our Source’s energy to come into our lives because we have placed ourselves out of our flow.

If you get yourself into your Golden Flow then you will align yourself to the energy of your Source where love exists for you. That flow is a place that is always changing and always flowing; a place where we are free like the wind and our hearts are open. We leave stagnant beliefs, limitations and old ways behind and instead allow ourselves to be who we truly are – and then our Source can flow though us.

Work on getting yourself into your Golden Flow – here you will have the relationship that best suits you (whether it is with your teacher or someone better).

Kris (my husband) and I offer a Golden Flow series, but there is also a free download that you can get- all at www.golden-flow-system.com

“If you are out of your Golden Flow, you are not allowing and you are judging. This only means that you are attracting things to put you out of your flow because you are not allowing yourself to be who you are and you are not allowing others to be who they are.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

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“Your dreams are not separate from your Self. Your dreams are a part of what your Source already has for you. The minute your source gave you the energy of your deep desires, of your dreams, there is a part of you that already knows what would satisfy this desire. But more than that, your Source already has what you desire to experience waiting for you.”