Kalyn Raphael

Kalyn

We, as humans, can be funny at times. We wish we knew what to do with our lives and wish that we had guidance and help in our lives, not remembering that the inspiration we seek is always available to us. Inspiration is a form of connection to our guidance in life or to higher aspects of ourselves. It comes to us, opening desires within and giving us the boost and spark we need to go and fulfill those desires.
Unfortunately, inspiration is often thought of as a rare gift or something only creative people experience. People often tell themselves this, allowing this to justify their inability to access inspiration themselves. Inspiration, though, is available to us all. To be in-Spirit-ed, or inspired, is to connect to a natural and supernatural part of ourselves. We all have guidance that works to helps us through life and we all have a Dreamer, or a soul. For each of us, our guidance and our Dreamers seek to inspire us daily; to help and guide us in a forward direction on the path of our lives. Receiving such help and inspiration is a natural part of each of us: our lives were set up this way to allow us to journey through life in the direction that is most beneficial to our lives, guided by our Dreamer.

People who are accustomed to receiving inspiration tend to be creative and enjoy fuller lives because they benefit from a healthy connection to more than just their daily, routine lives. A fuller life is the effect of being more open in life, in their ideas and thoughts. This creates and allows a well-balanced connection to different aspects of themselves, including their guidance. We all know that exercise promotes health and balance, and we tend to feel that spiritual balance is needed as well, though we may not know how spiritual balance is pursued. At some time or another, we have all experienced being inspired. The difference between those who are visited more often by inspiration and those who feel they are not is in being open to the inspiration and then following it through. Inspiration alone does nothing for us, it is like having a chest of gold on a deserted island. Following our inspiration and bringing it into our lives, on the other hand, brings about fulfi llment and it also opens the door to  our receiving more inspiration in our lives. Living our inspiration is akin to being able to spend the gold to get what we have always wanted.
As humans we have a limited view in life in comparison to the omniscient view of our lives, and of all that is, that our Dreamer’s have. Opening ourselves to inspiration, or guidance by Spirit (be it our guidance or our Dreamer), opens us to a life’s journey that can take us down roads and open new opportunities we couldn’t have imagined or, sometimes, even known about. Being inspired, or connected to Spirit, and living our inspiration brings us a fuller life of fulfi llment and journeys beyond our imagination!

Authetically Selfish LOA

Kalyn, did you say that being Selfish will increase my ability to use LOA (Law of Attraction)?

Yes! Absolutely! However, there is an important detail that you can’t miss here. Being Selfish with a capital “S” will increase your vibration and, therefore, what LOA brings to you. On the other hand, being selfish with a lower case “s” will decrease your vibration and de-enhance the energetic vibration LOA uses in your attracting.
Let’s start by talking about the difference between being Selfish and being selfish:

You need to begin by recognizing that your life, your choices and your feelings can come from one of two places within you; they can come from your authenticity or your preconceived self.  By preconceived self I mean that false self or ego self. More specifically I mean that part you that has ideas and beliefs about what should be.
Too many people have a lot of ideas and beliefs that define life and how it ought to work. For example, here in the US people, generally speaking, believe that babies should sleep in cribs by their selves, while in Japan generally speaking, people believe babies should sleep with their parents or grandparents, sharing a bed.
Regardless of where or how you believe babies should sleep, what’s truly important to notice is that the actions we take regarding where we put our baby to sleep can come from our Self, our authenticity, or our self, our preconceived self that is made up of our beliefs. In this example if a mother made her decision from her Self then she would seek out the authentic way to put her baby to sleep. Instead of focusing on her preconceived belief about how society thinks her baby should sleep she would do what was right to her. This means that she would make the choice that fit her present needs and her baby’s. She would make a choice in her Golden Flow ™ such that no matter where the baby slept or who the baby slept with, the mother would feel peaceful, loving and calm, having done the right thing for herself and her joyful baby.
Having made the right choice, she will have activated the energy of her Self. This authentic choice will automatically connect her to her Source Energy, raising her energy and increasing the beneficial things that LOA will now bring into her life.
On the other hand, here in the US a common experience for new mothers happens when she forces herself to leave her child crying in their crib as she closes the door and begins to cry herself, believing that she is doing the right thing by putting the child to sleep alone.  Because she has based her choice on information she has been taught in the past, as opposed to her present experience, her concept of what it means to be a good mother is lowering her energetic vibration, which is causing the pain and the crying for her baby and for herself.

Change your thinking to become more Selfish
What is most important in any situation in life is for you to always feel as though you are doing your best and making choices that are beneficial. The only way to do this is to focus on what you need in the now moment. This means placing your authentic Self first, which your past cannot define. People often confuse this with being self-centered and they think that this would mean indulging their whims without considering others.
However, the truth is that being indulgent and careless is not the same as being authentic. Indulgence and self-centeredness are only present when we are basing our thoughts, feelings and beliefs on our past.  People only act selfishly and self-centered when painful past experiences are making them feel unloved, therefore they are unwilling to share because they are afraid there won’t be enough for them; when their past experience showed them that people are unfriendly so that they assume the person they are meeting now will be the same way, causing them to hold back. Living from the past this way is what causes anyone to miss the now moment and lose their authenticity.
When you are in the flow of your authenticity you are more concerned with what you are experiencing now: what you need, what your loved ones need or what a situation needs.  In your authenticity you are making mature and wise choices.
Coming from the energies of maturity and wisdom can’t help but increase your energetic vibration. Become Selfish, authentic, and the Golden Flow™ of your now moment will connect you to your Source Energy. Your Source Energy is an endless stream of abundance, love and wisdom, and offering this vibration for LOA to attract your life from will create a full and divine life for you.

We wish you the life you dream of~

In other words, when you address your problem as if you were the you who is living your dreams, as if you were the You who has already realized the life that you desire, then you will address your problems with a higher vibrating energy. Some people think that life brings them “tests” to see if they are ready for the next level. This is untrue, as life only brings you what you asked for.

And what you asked for was your dream, whether you are asking for it consciously or subconsciously. You are always moving in the direction of what you dream of and who you dream of becoming. Life responds by bringing you the energy that you are attracting to yourself, using LOA, through your dream.

When your dreams come to you, knocking on your door, they may look, at first, like a problem or something undesirable. They are not; they are simply the higher vibrating dream you asked for that you simply do not yet recognize, as you are still in the process of raising your energy.

Open the door to your problems and your joys, as they both are a part of the experience of your life that is raising your energy and that is bringing you the life you dream of.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

Comment:

“Your message is truly arriving at a timely moment in my life. Thank you for confirming what I am trying to bring into my universe. I am faced with many challenges and the hardest one is reclaiming myself. I appreciate your message more than you know and even though I know I have a lot of work to do I also know that once I come back into alignment with my true self and Source things will be better.”

Response:

It truly is a magical year – so many people liked the post I sent out because this is true for us all. And truly, the challenges are always only about reclaiming ourselves.We are truly here to do this – every time we have a desire and fulfill it, we become more and more of who we truly are. This is what Abraham means when they say that we are always expanding ourselves.

Reclaiming ourselves when we are connected to our Source is a much easier experience. When we are disconnected, we struggle more than we need to. Getting ourselves in the flow doesn’t have to be hard either-

You may be interested in trying a free process that Kris and I offer at www.golden-flow-system.com that is on getting ourselves back into, what we call, our Source’s Golden Flow.

Our flow is meant to be a natural place where we live and it is not hard to get back to this place where we are in the now moment and we are connected to our Source!

Question:

“I have been reading alot of books on being successful and all of them pretty much say you have to leave your comfort zone and face your fears if you want to be successful. I have alot of fear around what I want to do (or what I think I want to do), and I am wondering if anyone has heard Abraham speak about facing your fears and leaving your comfort zone… it’s my understanding that fear is a negative emotion and is my guidance system telling me that may not be right for me, but it seems that all these successful people are saying the opposite, if you want to be great in life you have to face your fears and move past them.

Does anyone have any insight on this??”

Answer:

Abraham talks about telling your story as you want it to be. This is truly intended to help you align yourself to your Source Energy, who has your desire fulfilled.

In other words, instead of focusing on your fear you will benefit to focus on what you want in your life and keep telling yourself that story.

If the fear keeps popping up and you want to address it, then I have my students flow this energy. Getting yourself into your flow means tapping into your Source’s Golden Flow where there is no fear, but there is joy.

After all, you don’t want LOA to attract out of that fear. If you flow the energy of fear then it will transform, speeding up your process.

I offer a free flowing process at www.golden-flow-system.com

“In any experience, no matter what you have done, even if you think you are not worthy of love, your Source always has love for you. Your Source is always sending energies of love into your life. No matter what you have done, always connect with love. This is the secret to becoming a master of energy.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

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