Kalyn Raphael

November 17th, 2009 by Kalyn

Every Friday, Kalyn and I celebrate. We have a group of students and friends who are actively improving their lives who come and celebrate with us, either at our home or we choose a restaurant in Santa Fe. Since doing so, we have not only seen the manifestation of our dreams and desires accelerate in incredible ways, but we have witnessed wonderful things our students and friends are bringing into their lives.

Why is Celebration a Powerful Path to Manifestation?

There are several reasons why celebrating accelerates your creating process. Here are a few;

1. Celebrating lifts the spirits of all those participating. It raises your emotional tone. As you live from a happier place, you can’t help but to attract higher vibrating things into your life.
2. Celebrating is a form of gratitude. As part of our celebrating process, Kalyn asks each person what they are grateful for in their lives. Everyone then toasts that person and celebrates what they are grateful for, acknowledging what they have received or created. Gratitude is one of the most powerful energies to strengthen manifestation.
3. Celebrating what you have manifested or are thankful for gives you more of what you are celebrating. As you celebrate what you are celebrating, you increase the energy, the thoughts, and feelings around it, attracting even more of it. It is also a personal marker for you giving you a reference point to just how much you are actually manifesting. When doing this people are often surprised at just how many of their dreams are coming true.
4. Celebration is a form of ritual. A ritual, as I am using it here, is something you repeat over time. When you repeat something often for a long period of time, especially when you do it at the same time (such as every Friday), you create energetic pathways for the energy of celebration and manifestation to come through. This empowers your manifestation process.
5. When a group of people with a common Intent come together, such as celebrating what they have manifested or what they are grateful for, it amplifies and strengthens everyone’s power of manifestation. The group synergy is powerful. Plus, having others celebrate your manifestations is a great affirmation.

A celebration is different than a party. A party is for having fun, or meeting people. A celebration is also for fun (we dance, feast, and play games), but also has Intent behind it that everyone shares. In this case the Intent is to celebrate what you have manifested or those things for which you are thankful. Even if your manifestation hasn’t yet taken form, by celebrating something you are grateful for, you will accelerate your manifestation process.

I highly recommend you take on the celebration habit. Not only will you empower your manifestation process but you will have a wonderful time doing so.

Kristopher

Life

Every day I marvel at how amazing life is. It knows us better than we know ourselves and life knows how to take care of us in ways that we barely comprehend, if we are lucky. Life knows what will suit us and what will serve us better than we do because the Law of Attraction simply allows the energy that we are to come forward.

This is a part of the design of life. It brings to us the energy that we are to us so that we may be guided in the right direction every time. In every experience we have, we can allow ourselves to become aware of what we do or do not like about the experience and we can change it. We can became aware of what desires of ours are not being met and we can change this; we can become aware of what we require to be in the flow of our Source Energy and we can allow this to come forward.

The Guidance From Source

We are well provided for by our lives or our Source Energy. Whether we recognize it or not, we are always given what we need to shift our own energy. We have intelligence, the ability to discern, the ability to make choices and the ability to change ourselves so that we may become who we prefer to be.

One of the most powerful and effective tools, or methods, that we have to change ourselves is our imagination. Our imagination is a fun tool because, like energy, it is unlimited. Anyone can imagine anything they choose, which we see in creative story tellers. Because imagination is energy and operates the same way energy does, our imaginations can plant the seed of a new experience for us. Like any seed that is watered and cared for, our imagined idea can grow, attracting more energy to it, until it has enough energetic mass to attract form to it. Another way of saying this is that once we have created a large mass of energy through our imaginations, the Law of Attraction then uses this to attract experiences, people, places and things into our lives.

What You Require

We all require things in life, such as food and shelter. One of the most spiritually advanced concepts that I have ever come across and learned was that what we require, or what we need, is a positive thing, not a negative one. This is to say that what we require, or need, should be seen as a positive thing and not as a weakness within ourselves. People rarely qualify their needs as either genuine requirements for their lives or indulgences that can be damaging, such as the indulgence of an addiction. Spiritually speaking, our genuine needs are the things we need in order to be healthy and whole. These needs are not the needs that are spoken of when an alcoholic says that they need a drink. Quite the contrary, genuine needs are a part of the amazing guidance system that our Source Energy and life have set up to help us along our paths. Our genuine needs point us in the direction of our well-being.

As multidimensional beings, however, our genuine needs go much deeper than just the needs for food and shelter. The happiest and healthiest people in the world find that they have emotional needs as well, such as the need to have good friends, to be loved and to love their selves; to have their dreams come true, to express their selves and to feel a connection with their Source. A whole person truly has balance in all areas of their lives.

Of course, no one is expecting us to be perfect and have everything we need or desire in life.  However, our Source Energy is giving us the guidance and the ability to raise our energy and put ourselves in the flow of our well-being.

Again, one of the most powerful ways for us to do so is through our imagination. Our imagination allows us to see what we need, what we would prefer instead of what we have, and what we require in order to be in our well being physically, emotionally and mentally. When we use imagination this way, it truly fulfills the need, or the genuine requirement, we have. Our imagination can be used to begin to attract our genuine preferences into our lives, the things that will create well-being in us.

If we were to try to imagine another drink when we have an alcohol addiction we would find that our well-being state is not being met. On the contrary, we would simply be separating ourselves more from our well-being and increasing the addiction.

Fooling ourselves into thinking that we are using imagination to create well-being within ourselves when we are really using fantasy and creating more separation is a common mistake. People often reach for fantasy because it tends to relieve any pain they are feeling, just as a drink or a hit of a drug would, in the moment. In the long run, however, it does not create a new energy for us, the way imagination does. On the contrary, in fantasy our energy leaves us; it goes out to the object of our focus, such as the drink.

Losing energy this way can be very detrimental to us because it decreases our ability to attract what we prefer in our lives.  We increase our ability when we use the guidance in our lives to know what our genuine requirements, or needs, are and use a tool, like imagination, to attract what we prefer for ourselves in our lives.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

To learn more about a new class on attracting using The Law of Attraction, The Laws of Self & The Law of Repetition to use your Source Energy to attract the life you prefer by filling out the contact us form.

Question:

Thanks for your answer. I have had and have problems i havnt handled yet and were , are too much for me, including things I cant personallx control. Who said life only gives us what we can handle or that we are given problems to overcomethem? That person wasnt a god I dont think. Its like a lot of new age sayings. There is an answer for everything. While many may be true I am in the habit of questioning their validity. Maybe my problems will be resolved under the right circumstances and after some time. But then hnw much time? You haveto know what difficulties are in peoples lives personally. Itr ok for some person, maybe not you to have life coaching clients or sell a personal development course. Life is not so good for a number of people and many would like to improve things if they could. Its easier to be in the flow if you feel good and life is going well for you. I wrote about life flow many yearsago. My friend was into it even before me. I only have mobile internet at present. Im ok but mainly as Im a strong person. In my view I have to be connected to universal flow, people and opportunities. I spend much time alone when not at art school and work. Ive studied lots of these self development subjects before. I do have lots of good things in my life too. Many will inprove over time. I have very little money and much debt so cant do much yet in many areas including seeing my son. So i dont think flow wil solve that immediately. I am always open to possibilities though and not that negative. Just with healthy realism too. Anyway if you have problems as you say maybe I can help you as i have had lots of life experience ok?

Best wishes X

Answer:

Hi X,

I appreciate the offer, but I see that I need to clarify.

I am a spiritual life coach. At this point in my personal path I don’t have “problems” in my life so much as challenges. What I mean by this is that I no longer have the experience of having more than I can handle and I know how to handle things. I know how to work with the flow of life at which point my dreams have come true.

I have worked with many people over the years and I have seen a lot of people go from feeling overwhelmed in life and like they don’t know how or feel they can’t make things work to turning this around. I have had clients go from being unhappy employees to changing careers, status or starting their own businesses.

I have had clients who have a very difficult time attracting or keeping relationships, especially healthy ones, to them attracting the right person and getting married.

I think it is wonderful that you question things. You should question everything, including the way you think and the choices you make in life, as this is what shifts your energy, your life and what you experience.

? Kalyn

Unfortunately, I see so mnay people I work with not being honest with themselves.And this just attracts frustration and disillusionment.

Don Juan, from Castaneda’s books, spoke of the importance of being brtally honest with the self. This is because when we lie and tell ourselves what we want to hear, we later run into problems when things are not working out the way we would prefer.

We are all extraordinary in the eyes of Source. This means that we each have our own gifts and we are each a unique being, even though we are a part of the hole. We are meant to live the joy of life and of feeling the love that our Source Energy has for us, but this becomes difficult or impossible when we are not honest with ourselves.

The little white lies are some of the worst. They seem innocent and unimportant, however they really activate energies that remove clarity from our lives. One of my current clients is having a difficult time with this. On the one hand, he likes to tell himself that things are the way he wants them to be, but then becomes frustrated when he encounters abrasive experiences in his life. For example, he likes to tell himself that he likes people and likes being around people but removes himself from social situations quickly. He says that he likes being alone too. The white lie about liking to be around people is causing a split, which you can easily see. The statement that he likes to be around people, but avoids social situations and the statement that he likes being alone tell a different story. They reveal the contradiction, caused by the lie. The difficulty is then compounded when he has difficulties in his relationship. He loves his partner, but can’t figure out why they are experiencing tension. He can’t understand why they don’t communicate well and he is perplexed at why they sometimes prefer not to spend time together when the opportunity arises.

Of course, the answer is obvious when we are not believing the lie. The problem is that he doesn’t do well interacting with people.

Shen we are honest with ourselves we are empowered to create the changes we want since we know what the situation is all about. In the case of my client, when he started to get honest with himself he recognized the problem. Needless to say, he also saw that he had been avoiding the truth because it hurt some to see that he wanted to be a person who knew how to connect with others, but was not.

Knowing this, he now was able to make an empowerd choice. He chose to welcome what he did not like in himself, namely his inability to connect with others the way he would like to, and began to flow this. As he shifted the energy that was out of alignment in himself, he found that his ability to interract with others, including his mate, improved.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

Learn more about the Golden Flow™ system & download a free audio process at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

“All that truly exists is the Now moment. However, if you are going
to go to your past, use it wisely.

Use the memories you have to remember how many dreams you used to have and notice how they have come forward.
Use the memories to remember how overwhelmed you felt with your problems and notice how you overcame them.
Use the memories to remember how you have wanted love in your life and remember how it has come.

That would be an aligned use of getting out of your Now moment, as it would increase your confidence that you can live the life you prefer.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

Travel through time~ Join us as we enter the world of energy on our Teotihuacan Journey http://mystical-odyssey.com/teotihuacansma09

A Bonus San Miguel de Allende Ladies Gathering With Kalyn

in SMA, Mexico

January 3-5th (3 days following Journey)

Ladies Gathering

Three quality days connecting with the ladies~

Join Kalyn for a Ladies Three Day Intensive where we will gather together as women, allowing the aspects of femininity to come forward.

The feminine flow is one in which quality rules. Women in their femininity bring forth great joy and add an enchanting aspect to life that brings great beauty, great color and heart to our own lives and those we touch. In her feminine flow, life flows smoothly and elegantly. Days take on a softness during our Ladies gatherings that is unmatched. A sisterhood is created in which we can bond and share our experiences and our dreams, helping one another bring these forward.

Activities

• Meditating
• Group Lunches
• Tarot Readings & Reading Lessons
• A day of Flowing with Source at La Gruta (weather permitting – bring your bathing suit!)
  

Ladies Gather Fee

$500 or $400 Reduced pricing for those attending the Becoming Who You Truly Are Journey-

Please call Kalyn for more information or to register (505) 670-2288

The Ladies Gathering Fee Includes:
-Gathering classes, dissertations and processes

Additional Costs:
-Lodging
-Meals
-Personal purchases
-Transportation to San Miguel de Allende, unless participant is already here for the Magical Miguel Journey
-Entrance and transportation to an excursion

Recommended Lodging
At Posada Carmina (www.posadacarmina.com)
Double occupancy rooms are approximately $150 per night & they include breakfast. Please note that these rates vary depending on the current exchange rate~

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Recommended Lodging:
At Posada Carmina (www.posadacarmina.com)
Double occupancy rooms are $129 per night, Four to a room is $174 per night. Please note that these rates vary depending on the current exchange rate~

Kalyn and I are very excited about the information coming through now. Kalyn was up most the night receiving amazing guidance and insight on the True Meaning of Relationship, How Relationship is the Fastest way to Accelerate Your Manifestation, and How to Create and Maintain the Relationship of Your Dreams.

We have so much material to share with you, and it sometimes seems like there is hardly the time to get it all to you, whether in writing, videos or other
recordings.

When Kalyn and I met eleven years ago, it changed both our lives forever in ways unimaginable. Sharing and merging our inner and outer worlds with a common Intent to grow and evolve into Who we are, empowered both of us to live the life of our dreams.

In a conscious relationship 1 plus 1 does not equal 2. The combining of energies in a spiritual partnership leads to seemingly infinite expansion of both partners’ worlds.

We have so much to share with you and will be doing so. You can begin by joining us in The Oracle Gathering Tuesday. You can do so via your web browser or call in by phone.

Go to http://oracle-love.eventbrite.com

Talk to you soon.

Love and Light,

K2 (Kristopher and Kalyn)

Where Your Dreams Become Real

In Your Source’s Golden Flow

There is a place where your energy flows into you and your life-  it is at your core. Our consciousness is what runs through our lives, animating us into this physical experience. Using our will, our consciousness goes where we want it to via our attention. Our consciousness can flow into divine places of our choosing or to places of difficulty and misery, again of our choosing.

Our consciousness is divided into seven layers of consciousness within us, one at each chakra. As many people know, each chakra holds an energetic theme for us to work through, the whole of which works towards our evolution.

Everyone has a chakra that needs to come into greater balance. For example, if a person’s root chakra is out of balance then they will experience problems that pertain to safety and security in their lives. A chakra out of balance means that the chakra is not in alignment to Source flow, which has no lack of safety or security. Another way of saying this is that the flow of our Source Energy, which is the magic that is our vital life force, is not flowing evenly and smoothly through our chakra. Like water entering a tunnel at an angle, only part of that Source flow is making it into our tunnel and flowing through us. The rest is spilling out.

When we are born we are fully connected to our Source Energy, which most of us see or sense in the presence of a newborn. We often exclaim that an infant is still bringing through divine energy. It is only through the living of life and a series of experiences that initiate us into the density of every day life that we are emotionally and energetically wounded, such that aspects of us fall out of our flow.

These parts of our consciousness that fall out of our flow then attract experiences to us that are, generally speaking, characterized by pain and suffering. Simply put, any part of us, namely of our energy, that is outside our own Source’s flow experiences energies of separation.

In the Flow state, or in our Golden Flow™, we are in alignment at our chakras and consciousness. We experience the love and the light of the higher vibrating energies of our divinity, or our Source Energy. In this state we can’t help but return to our natural, authentic being which experiences the energies of our Source, energies of endless abundance, love, joy and so on.

More and more people are remembering and awakening to the fact that a life riddled with problems or pain is not authentic, nor is it what we are meant to experience. People are coming to realize that they need to get themselves into the flow, that place in life where things work out for us, where our lives are harmonious and where life is at we know it is meant to be.

Using the Golden Flow™ system, anyone can choose to bring their energy back into that aligned flow. Anyone can learn to connect with the whole of their lives, allowing their Source to shine the divine light that we all truly are through our consciousness.

When our consciousness is thus aligned to our own divinity in our Flow state we find the place where we are Who we have always wanted to be and Who we truly are, in addition to finding the fulfillment of our dreams.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

Learn more about the Golden Flow™ system & download a free audio process at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

I used to watch everything: the time, the correctness of things, how well and quickly I did things and more. It was endless.

Keeping a mental record of time so that everything was done on time and correctly was really a bit uptight. Generally it got me to my appointments five, ten or fifteen minutes early since I kept watching the time to make sure I didn’t arrive late.

What a life! Living under the thumb of what should be, when it should be by and how many minutes passed on my watch while it did!

Then I embarked more deeply onto my spiritual path. I began relaxing, letting go and trusting. I even received a beautiful watch as a gift for my birthday and wore it, but I slowed my time down. When this watch broke, over ten years ago, I stopped wearing it. Even though I looked for a new watch to replace it, none of the dozen watches I bought “did it” for me, so either something happened to them or I decided I didn’t really like them. My wrist was bare.

And, without a watch, I stopped watching time, my life and my doings.

For so many years I have been living life, making appointments and getting things done without monitoring watches, metaphorical or real. I have been taking care of things, completing more projects and making it at the right time to appointments. The ‘right’ time is not necessarily the agreed upon time, as things happen for everyone such that sometimes my being ten minutes late or early are right in the flow of the arrival of the event.

I have now spent years asking my sweet, sweet husband, Kris, what time it is – because I do keep in touch with time. This has been quite a different experience from my former watching years. Not only had it turned my husband into Big Ben at times, but I only watch time at the right time, like before I need to give class. And, I only ask a few times and then make it to where I need to be at the right time.

So, after Kris time keeping with his current watch, his watch has begun to tell time too quickly. That is to say, his current watch is speeding up and asking to be retired. Although his birthday isn’t for two more months, I decided it was time to get him a new, gorgous watch for his birthday. As we shopped around and found the watch he wanted, something in the display caught my eye! A beautiful watch! A unique, silver-colerd, decorative bracelet-like watch… just my taste! At the rist of breaking my even dozen set of un-worn and un-loved watches, Kris bought me a thirteenth watch.

I love my new watch, I guess it was time to have one again. I have been wearing it for the last couple of days and have enjoyed looking at my wrist to know the approximate time, as a watch with only 12:00, 3:00, 6:00 and 9:00 keeps me guessing a bit. Needless to say, I’m back in the flow of time.

I awoke this morning wondering how it is that I have made it to appointments and kept life on schedule and on time with no watch for the last ten years. Because one of my first thoughts as I brushed my teeth and was waking up was about putting my watch on.

And the answer came in a heartbeat. I have stopped watching time and have been keeping in tune with it instead. I have stopped keeping watch over my life and my doings and I have instead begun keeping them. Keeping them has meant taking care of my life and myself, doing my best to do what I need to do without measuring for success or judging the incorectness of things. Instead I have been loving and appreciating my life, my gifts and my experiences as best I can so that I see improvements, expansion and love coming forth. These later things are the ones I now watch for.