Kalyn Raphael

Perception & You

Have you ever noticed or gotten frustrated with, what seems like, things changing?

In other words, have you ever gone down the same road to get to the same place and felt like the turn off wasn’t there? Or, hopefully you have had a better experience: We headed down to San Miguel de Allende.  Last time the trip took 26 hours. You’d think that the same trip would take the same amount of time, but things changed. All of a sudden there was another highway that we could take, which was a smoother ride – and shorter. Once we crossed the boarder the same highway we had taken last time also went quicker and seemed different. More beautiful and with less toll booths.

How could this be? How can the same highway on the same road give us such a different experience? Sure, a new highway may give a different result, but how does the same highway do this?

The answer is easy – we are bending physicality. While the rules of physicality, or form, are constant one thing is not. That one thing is energy.

When you are in your flow, your energy is different and the energy you attract is different. When you are out of your flow your energy is vibrating lower than when you are in the flow and what you attract vibrates lower as well. Another way of saying this is that in a higher energy, or your flow (what is often called the vortex) even the same highway provides a different experience all together.

This difference is accounted for by the shift in perception we experience from the energy we hold. But, for now this is not relevant.

What is relevant is that when we get into our flow of well-being, we shift our energy and our whole experience. If you don’t like something you are experiencing or if you want to change what you experience in the future, the place to focus is on yourself. Get yourself into your Source Flow and your life will change, improve.

Too often our egos, or the parts of us that are out of the flow and justify being here, tell us that we don’t deserve to be in a better place. Or there is some other reason or excuse for our not being in a better place. Do you buy this?

If you are not in a better place, you have believed that you belong where you do. After all, that is why you are experiencing what you are experiencing. No worries though, you can change this.

Even if you are in your flow you can change this and improve it! Do so, decide for yourself that I am right and that you can improve your life, you can attract what you prefer. After all, I’m doing it so why can’t you?

Welcome your experience and let it flow. Take a few minutes out of your busy day to talk to your Source and tell it/you that you are ready for a change. You are ready to be the You that is in a better place. And then allow that better place to come to you.

Use the amazing resources that are available in our day and age – use the free Golden Flow(TM) process we offer at http:golden-flow-system.com – use what ever it takes, because you are worth it! You are meant to have the experience you prefer, even if you are going down the same road.

Love & Light,

Kalyn

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

To learn more about a new class on attracting using The Law of Attraction, The Laws of Self & The Law of Repetition to use your Source Energy to attract the life you prefer by filling out the contact us form.

November 17th, 2009 by Kalyn

Allow & Align

I am in a highly creative/dreaming (or attracting) mode. I have been spending time every evening to flow my energy and have now turned the corner into flowing my dreams.

Last night I began to dream about where I want to be in five years, what I want to be doing. During the dreaming I activated this energy and allowed the desire to take more and more shape. Afterwards I worked on aligning my energy to the desire. In the alignment process I found bridges between my days now and my days in my dreams five years from now.

So today I will be bridging this energy. I will be experiencing the energy of my fulfilled dreams and a few manifestations today, instead of waiting five years and shortening the time it will take for my dreams to come forward. Why wait five years?

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Kalyn B Raphael

Learn more about Kalyn & working with her: www.kalynraphael.com

Life

Every day I marvel at how amazing life is. It knows us better than we know ourselves and life knows how to take care of us in ways that we barely comprehend, if we are lucky. Life knows what will suit us and what will serve us better than we do because the Law of Attraction simply allows the energy that we are to come forward.

This is a part of the design of life. It brings to us the energy that we are to us so that we may be guided in the right direction every time. In every experience we have, we can allow ourselves to become aware of what we do or do not like about the experience and we can change it. We can became aware of what desires of ours are not being met and we can change this; we can become aware of what we require to be in the flow of our Source Energy and we can allow this to come forward.

The Guidance From Source

We are well provided for by our lives or our Source Energy. Whether we recognize it or not, we are always given what we need to shift our own energy. We have intelligence, the ability to discern, the ability to make choices and the ability to change ourselves so that we may become who we prefer to be.

One of the most powerful and effective tools, or methods, that we have to change ourselves is our imagination. Our imagination is a fun tool because, like energy, it is unlimited. Anyone can imagine anything they choose, which we see in creative story tellers. Because imagination is energy and operates the same way energy does, our imaginations can plant the seed of a new experience for us. Like any seed that is watered and cared for, our imagined idea can grow, attracting more energy to it, until it has enough energetic mass to attract form to it. Another way of saying this is that once we have created a large mass of energy through our imaginations, the Law of Attraction then uses this to attract experiences, people, places and things into our lives.

What You Require

We all require things in life, such as food and shelter. One of the most spiritually advanced concepts that I have ever come across and learned was that what we require, or what we need, is a positive thing, not a negative one. This is to say that what we require, or need, should be seen as a positive thing and not as a weakness within ourselves. People rarely qualify their needs as either genuine requirements for their lives or indulgences that can be damaging, such as the indulgence of an addiction. Spiritually speaking, our genuine needs are the things we need in order to be healthy and whole. These needs are not the needs that are spoken of when an alcoholic says that they need a drink. Quite the contrary, genuine needs are a part of the amazing guidance system that our Source Energy and life have set up to help us along our paths. Our genuine needs point us in the direction of our well-being.

Allow

As multidimensional beings, however, our genuine needs go much deeper than just the needs for food and shelter. The happiest and healthiest people in the world find that they have emotional needs as well, such as the need to have good friends, to be loved and to love their selves; to have their dreams come true, to express their selves and to feel a connection with their Source. A whole person truly has balance in all areas of their lives.

Of course, no one is expecting us to be perfect and have everything we need or desire in life.  However, our Source Energy is giving us the guidance and the ability to raise our energy and put ourselves in the flow of our well-being.

Again, one of the most powerful ways for us to do so is through our imagination. Our imagination allows us to see what we need, what we would prefer instead of what we have, and what we require in order to be in our well being physically, emotionally and mentally. When we use imagination this way, it truly fulfills the need, or the genuine requirement, we have. Our imagination can be used to begin to attract our genuine preferences into our lives, the things that will create well-being in us.

If we were to try to imagine another drink when we have an alcohol addiction we would find that our well-being state is not being met. On the contrary, we would simply be separating ourselves more from our well-being and increasing the addiction.

Fooling ourselves into thinking that we are using imagination to create well-being within ourselves when we are really using fantasy and creating more separation is a common mistake. People often reach for fantasy because it tends to relieve any pain they are feeling, just as a drink or a hit of a drug would, in the moment. In the long run, however, it does not create a new energy for us, the way imagination does. On the contrary, in fantasy our energy leaves us; it goes out to the object of our focus, such as the drink.

Losing energy this way can be very detrimental to us because it decreases our ability to attract what we prefer in our lives.  We increase our ability when we use the guidance in our lives to know what our genuine requirements, or needs, are and use a tool, like imagination, to attract what we prefer for ourselves in our lives.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

To learn more about a new class on attracting using The Law of Attraction, The Laws of Self & The Law of Repetition to use your Source Energy to attract the life you prefer by filling out the contact us form.

Question:

Thanks for your answer. I have had and have problems i havnt handled yet and were , are too much for me, including things I cant personallx control. Who said life only gives us what we can handle or that we are given problems to overcomethem? That person wasnt a god I dont think. Its like a lot of new age sayings. There is an answer for everything. While many may be true I am in the habit of questioning their validity. Maybe my problems will be resolved under the right circumstances and after some time. But then hnw much time? You haveto know what difficulties are in peoples lives personally. Itr ok for some person, maybe not you to have life coaching clients or sell a personal development course. Life is not so good for a number of people and many would like to improve things if they could. Its easier to be in the flow if you feel good and life is going well for you. I wrote about life flow many yearsago. My friend was into it even before me. I only have mobile internet at present. Im ok but mainly as Im a strong person. In my view I have to be connected to universal flow, people and opportunities. I spend much time alone when not at art school and work. Ive studied lots of these self development subjects before. I do have lots of good things in my life too. Many will inprove over time. I have very little money and much debt so cant do much yet in many areas including seeing my son. So i dont think flow wil solve that immediately. I am always open to possibilities though and not that negative. Just with healthy realism too. Anyway if you have problems as you say maybe I can help you as i have had lots of life experience ok?

Best wishes X

Answer:

Hi X,

I appreciate the offer, but I see that I need to clarify.

I am a spiritual life coach. At this point in my personal path I don’t have “problems” in my life so much as challenges. What I mean by this is that I no longer have the experience of having more than I can handle and I know how to handle things. I know how to work with the flow of life at which point my dreams have come true.

I have worked with many people over the years and I have seen a lot of people go from feeling overwhelmed in life and like they don’t know how or feel they can’t make things work to turning this around. I have had clients go from being unhappy employees to changing careers, status or starting their own businesses.

I have had clients who have a very difficult time attracting or keeping relationships, especially healthy ones, to them attracting the right person and getting married.

I think it is wonderful that you question things. You should question everything, including the way you think and the choices you make in life, as this is what shifts your energy, your life and what you experience.

? Kalyn

Unfortunately, I see so mnay people I work with not being honest with themselves.And this just attracts frustration and disillusionment.

Don Juan, from Castaneda’s books, spoke of the importance of being brtally honest with the self. This is because when we lie and tell ourselves what we want to hear, we later run into problems when things are not working out the way we would prefer.

We are all extraordinary in the eyes of Source. This means that we each have our own gifts and we are each a unique being, even though we are a part of the hole. We are meant to live the joy of life and of feeling the love that our Source Energy has for us, but this becomes difficult or impossible when we are not honest with ourselves.

The little white lies are some of the worst. They seem innocent and unimportant, however they really activate energies that remove clarity from our lives. One of my current clients is having a difficult time with this. On the one hand, he likes to tell himself that things are the way he wants them to be, but then becomes frustrated when he encounters abrasive experiences in his life. For example, he likes to tell himself that he likes people and likes being around people but removes himself from social situations quickly. He says that he likes being alone too. The white lie about liking to be around people is causing a split, which you can easily see. The statement that he likes to be around people, but avoids social situations and the statement that he likes being alone tell a different story. They reveal the contradiction, caused by the lie. The difficulty is then compounded when he has difficulties in his relationship. He loves his partner, but can’t figure out why they are experiencing tension. He can’t understand why they don’t communicate well and he is perplexed at why they sometimes prefer not to spend time together when the opportunity arises.

Of course, the answer is obvious when we are not believing the lie. The problem is that he doesn’t do well interacting with people.

Shen we are honest with ourselves we are empowered to create the changes we want since we know what the situation is all about. In the case of my client, when he started to get honest with himself he recognized the problem. Needless to say, he also saw that he had been avoiding the truth because it hurt some to see that he wanted to be a person who knew how to connect with others, but was not.

Knowing this, he now was able to make an empowerd choice. He chose to welcome what he did not like in himself, namely his inability to connect with others the way he would like to, and began to flow this. As he shifted the energy that was out of alignment in himself, he found that his ability to interract with others, including his mate, improved.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

Learn more about the Golden Flow™ system & download a free audio process at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

“All that truly exists is the Now moment. However, if you are going
to go to your past, use it wisely.

Use the memories you have to remember how many dreams you used to have and notice how they have come forward.
Use the memories to remember how overwhelmed you felt with your problems and notice how you overcame them.
Use the memories to remember how you have wanted love in your life and remember how it has come.

That would be an aligned use of getting out of your Now moment, as it would increase your confidence that you can live the life you prefer.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

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Loving All of Life

We all have our own world, two actually.

We have an inner world which holds our thoughts, feelings; our hopes and our dreams. We also have an outer world, the world we experience, which is generally our home, our family and such.

Do you love your world or worlds? Do you love your life?

There are people who say they do, even though they don’t. There are people who say they don’t like anything and that life is hard. A black and white world, in this way, is out of balance and inaccurate. A black and white world like this will take us right out of the flow of life.

Life has challenges and joys, so it has ups and downs. It’s true, we want to try not to ride a roller coaster in life, but we are meant to have experiences in life. We are meant to taste black, white and all the shades of grey which come inbetween.

Experience and enjoy your life. Love your life. Be with your life, feel the shades of grey or of black or of white and then see what is left over. Let life flow in this way. As we are with our lives, as they are and without pushing wonder on them or seeing them in a poor light, we will see our lives as they truly are. We will see what is worth loving and we will see how we are loved.

This is a powerful way to improve your energy, raising your vibration. Whether you are looking to feel better and enjoy your life more or to improve what the Law of Attraction brings to you, putting yourself in your flow this way will improve your life and what you experience.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys. Learn how to flow your energy- an enjoyable and quick process using the Golden Flow System at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

Who You Choose To Be

Just like seasons have weather themes, so to speak, time does to. I am always focusing on the theme of the energy at hand and guiding my students as to what course of action is most in the flow of the energy at hand so that they may make the most out of what is offered to them. In this way, they are able to get the most bang for their buck, as they say, by working with universal flow.
The theme this year is really about becoming Who we truly are, and I have spoken about this quite a bit. It is about choosing Who we want to be and what we want to experience. When we choose Who we want to be the Law of Attraction (LOA) then sets out to begin to use the energies within us to attract the corresponding experiences to us. In other worlds, just the choice to Be who we wish to be activates energy within us that LOA then uses to attract experiences to us.
Thus, it is crucial to always choose Who we wish to be, especially this year when universal energy is behind us empowering our choices.
I was listening to Neal Donald Walsh the other day. He said that no one does anything that he or she does not choose to in this life. This statement is powerful and true. Although some may say that there are times when they do not have a choice, the point that Neal is making is that we only find ourselves not having a choice when we are empowering an inner victim. We find that we always have a choice in every situation in life when we realize that we have that power. In other words, we need to choose to have this power and then we do.

How To Choose
Becoming Who you wish to be is a rather simple choice that you just make. Within us all there are several possibilities – each person has several interests and/or urgings that tell them about several different people they could be or are. For example, you can be a parent, a friend, a lawyer, a mystic, an honest person and a liar. Just the same, you can choose to leave being a liar behind to become an honest parent. You can leave being a mystic behind to become a dedicated lawyer.

Excuses Not To Choose
It Is Not In The Cards For Me:
Sometimes people think that destiny means that we cannot choose Who we will be. They confuse energetic strengths with destiny because they think that a pre-destined path means that they can’t choose Who they will be. However, this is untrue. You can be Who you wish to be and you can do what you choose, as Neal says. There is no force in the universe that will work against your will and turn you into something you are not. On the contrary, the universe and your Source Energy are actually working to help you become empowered enough that you will allow yourself to become Who and What you truly are, choices that are given to you. A pre-destined event or opportunity can bring you more of Who you are and it can help you, but it never hinders or binds.
Being at a place to empower ourselves and to realize that we can choose Who we are for ourselves is meant to be a natural place of maturity. It is meant to be a part of our process of becoming adults and of being at a point in our lives where we will take on the responsibility for ourselves and for choosing Who “ourselves” is. And yet, this natural stage of life is one that many people have difficulty reaching and coming from.
Life Doesn’t Allow Me:
For many people it is as if they feel that everything has a price in life and that they simply can’t really have what they want, so how could they ever be Who they truly wish to be? These types of feelings are quite common and can be overcome. It is true, none of us are perfect, nor are we meant to be. It is true every person makes mistakes and has weaknesses. Life doesn’t reward or punish based on this; that is simply not how energy and life work. On the contrary, life doesn’t reward or punish us at all, we do. Just feeling as though life is unfair to us is something we place upon ourselves.

See Things Clearly
Why not focus on the light within ourselves? Why not focus on the dreams and desires we hold within ourselves? Why not remember that we make our own choices and that we are the ones determining what energies we activate within us? Why don’t we determine what energies LOA will use to attract our experiences to us?
We all have positive thoughts and negative thoughts, but our thoughts and our feelings do not determine Who we are. Instead, out of all the hurtful feelings and all the violent thoughts that we do have, what determines Who we are is simply what we choose to be. I’m sorry to say that we all have a violent, negative side- but I’m happy to say that, just the same, we all have a beautiful, joyful and loving side. What we seek from within ourselves and what side of ourselves we choose to Be and act from- that is what determines Who we are. These are the simple and powerful choices that determine what kind of person we are. The intention we hold makes the choice to bring forth the energy we choose within ourselves and that is the choice Neal speaks of. We always have a choice as to Who we wish to be and the more often we choose the same aspect of ourselves, be it dark, light, confidant or insecure, that is the energy we activate and increase within ourselves. That is the energy LOA then uses in our lives.
At each turn in life things happen, but how we respond to them and Who we choose to be is what determines what our life will be like tomorrow and Who we are today.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.

By Simon Townsen

About one year ago, I was at a turning point in my life. I had been walking my spiritual path for some time, but there was some sense of dissatisfaction. I wanted more. I wanted more connection. I wanted more abundance. I wanted more freedom. I wanted to be able to express who and what I was more freely.

So I set about changing my life. The first thing I worked on was career. I desperately wanted to find not just a job, but a career, a place where I was motivated, where I was giving the best of my Self to my company, to the people I worked with, to our clients and customers. At the time I was working for Merrill Lynch, and to be honest, I was not happy. So I had begun applying for jobs, and I was grasping at finding new work, more meaningful work.

I sat down with my Life Coach and Personal Guide, Kalyn, and she introduced me to what she called the Golden Flow. She told me to tune into what I desired. As she did I could feel that pull, that strong will to live a deeper more meaningful life, and to have that expressed through my career. She asked me, can you welcome that in? I said, “Yes.” And so I welcomed in all those feelings at deeper and deeper levels.

Then she said to me, “Can you let that flow? Can you let those feelings float downstream.” Instantly, I felt the grasp. I didn’t want to let go of that meaning, that sense of purpose. I wanted to hold on to it. But as I opened to the possibility of letting go of that grasp, for life to be different than what it was, there was this opening, this relief. There was this sense of acceptance of my life as it was. I could see myself still taking actions to get a new job, but it
wasn’t forced. I wasn’t grasping at it. Nor was I repelling my current work. I was allowing it all to be in my life. And I felt so empowered.

I suddenly felt as if I could choose from my Self rather than choosing from my fear, my lack, my grasp, or my repel. Three days later I had the career I desired. That is the magic of life.

I wish I could say that I understood the power of this simple practice right away, but the truth is, I did not. I like to think that I’m a rather bright guy, so doing something so simple seemed too easy. I felt like if things in my life were really going to change, it needed to be complex, there needed to be some deep metaphysical principals behind it (there
are–actually in this process–but knowing or not knowing the principals does not change the process, and does not make it work any better).

However, over the course of the past year, I have worked with this process, and I have seen again and again how powerful a force it can be to change my life. I have developed much more awareness as to where I am at, what I am grasping at, what I am repelling. I have seen
that all these reactions are not who I really am. They are simply an illusion. But I have spent so much of my life believing them, hooked into them, allowing the energy of these negative beliefs to rule my perception of the world, the choices that I take, basically all of my life.

The more I have welcomed, flowed, and allowed my life to be what it is, the more I have come into a place of empowerment, and of joy–a feeling that my life already has the purpose and the meaning that I have been longing for. There is a sense that my life is a mystery and the path is unfolding beneath my feet just as it should. I am where I need to be doing what I need to do. And the more I allow this, the more I flow with this, the more magic I find in each moment. Life loses that sense of struggle, and instead opens up at deeper and
deeper levels of magic and mystery.

I want to thank Kris and Kalyn for bringing this process through. If you have not had the chance, I really do recommend checking out their site:http://golden-flow-system.com/ There’s a bunch of resources to work with.

Resistence-Free

“Your dreams are inevitable – how long it takes them to arrive is  just dependent on how much resistance you choose to hold.”

-The Oracle

I love what this world is coming to!

Yes, there are a lot of problems in the world, most of which are getting worse, but they are only getting worse because people have resistance.  You can just imagine what that the Law of Attraction does with that resistance!

The world is truly coming to a place where authenticity will be easier to find within ourselves and where being in our flow will become more and more normal. Authenticity is already natural, though most of us lose site of this and we become normal and in-authentic, like most others. So, you might say that our world is coming to a place where it is becoming easier to return to our natural state of being. That natural, authentic state of being is resistance-free, at which point our magnetism for attracting is huge.

Resistance is a block to our energetic flow. Resistances block the energy of our Source coming down to us, impeding our receiving that energy.

Why not have a resistance-free reality? Why not notice what is bothering you, what is rubbing you the wrong way and release the resistance? Why not allow yourself to be aware of the reistance you have to yourself, flow what you don’t like and come to a place where you love yourself? Love is the most powerful magnetic attractor.

Life is simple. Realizing a resistance-free reality is simple. Us coming to the place where we choose this isn’t necessesarily easy. But the world is helping us, with all its problems. The problems make it easier for us to realize we don’t need problems or resistance. Just joy and love.

And in joy and love we come to live a resistance-free reality!

Why is Resistance So Hard To Let Go Of?

The truth is there is only one reason: we don’t want to let go. Generally we don’t want to let go because we have a misperception within us that incorrectly thinks that if we are not resisting then we won’t get what we want? As if closing the door will allow new friends to come in! Sounds silly, I know, but that is what resistance does.

Stop and think about what you are resisting. I’m very sorry to say that most of us are resisting something all of the time. We are resisting being loved because we think we’ll be hurt; we resist having the life we want because subconsciously we are afraid of what we want. For example, I have a student who has a strong desire for a relationship. However, she is also very weary of men and their motivations. Under these circumstances, how will she be open enough to allow men to be themselves and to come forward in a relationship? Her resistance keeps her from allowing men to get closer to her. On the other hand, if she chose to let this resistance flow away then she would find several men knocking at her door.

Nothing to Fear

In my above example, my student resists relationship because she has been hurt in the past. However, why fear what you don’t want or what has happened in the past? Why resist what you desire  in the present? The only reason to resist your desires is because you are assuming that your desire will include something painful or unwanted. Why make that assumption? Why not paint a dream for yourself of your life the way you want it minus what you don’t want?

Your Source Energy does not seek to bring you a great life with a little torture on the side! Your Source Energy is you! It is important for you to know what you do and don’t want. Resist neither of them and then have the resistance-free and joyful life you dream of!

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.