Be true to yourself. Nothing else matters.
People say things all the time, both positive and negative- but it is not always the truth. When it comes down to yourself, all that matters is You. Not even the truth or a lie, just you and how you are with yourself.
When you are true to yourself you find that speaking up for yourself and asking for what you need is not a bad thing. Knowing where you are in life and what you require is a very powerful position to be in. From here, being true to yourself is an easy flow. It is an easy flow because you have made yourself your priority.
The universe honors people making their selves a priority – please notice, I am specifically talking about making your mature, authentic self a priority. People easily confuse this with making the in-authentic self a priority. The in-authentic self is characterized my immaturity and ego. Making this in-authentic self a priority will only attract and create problems and difficulties in life.
When we put the in-authentic self first we can’t help but be detrimental to ourselves and to others.
When we put our Self (the authentic Self) first, we can’t help but benefit ourselves and others. We also can’t help but be true to ourselves.
Today I allow my Source Energy to support me, as I take care of my family.
Today I allow my Source Energy to send me joy, as I laugh with my daughter.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me health, as I prepare a healthy meal for my husband.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me desires, as I dream about my life.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me energy, as I attract the life of my dreams.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me challenges, as I unravel what gift my challenges hold for me.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me love, as I love my life.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me experiences, as I allow myself to experience them.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me sensations, as I allow my being to sense them.
Today I allow my Source Energy to bring me change, as I become Who I truly am.
One of the most important aspects of life regards our being Who we truly are – this is what puts us in our Source’s Golden Flow and what puts us in our now moment.
Many women I have worked with over the years or encountered in my own life have shared the struggle of being a woman in a man’s world. This has an averse affect upon many of us, making us feel less secure or comfortable being women. That immediately places us out of our now moment and out of our flow. After all, how can we be in that amazing flow of energy coming down from our Source when we don’t feel comfortable being there?
Being Who we are is important. I see the feminine experience changing greatly in the world, women have and continue to reclaim their power as women, and this is a blessing. After all, the ancient yin-yang symbol shows a perfect balance when both the feminine and the masculine flow are present. Our world can come back into balance as femininity and masculinity come back into balance.
For us to achieve balance, as a world or as ourselves, we must be comfortable with who we are. We must find our strengths and our weaknesses, using our strengths and healing our weaknesses.
Women are different than men – we are more connected to mystery, which is why I say we are mystical. We are more connected to the unseen or to Spirit or Source Energy, which is why women tend to be more intuitive. Please don’t misunderstand me, women are neither better than or worse than men. Like I said, both genders in balance create a beautiful flow. What I’m saying is that the yin and yang are different colors. We women are more intuitive, generally speaking – but certainly not always true. Generally speaking we women need to connect with other women, to have girlfriends and to nurture relationships. That is a lot of who we are.
I love the changes I am seeing in the world because I see women recognizing that we have many strengths – just like men have many strengths. The difference is that it is not as easy for us to claim these is a male-oriented world! So, it is a blessing that we are seeing this! It is a blessing when we come together and allow ourselves to be the loving, wise and mystical being that we are. When we do this, magic comes forward as we come back to that place of our Golden Flow(TM) and of our now moment.
A blessing to us all, for opening and allowing ourselves to become Who we truly are… Wise, loving women who know that beauty is about what we are.
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(from my new blog at www.lawsofabundance.com)
Universal Law: As within, so without-
Is abundance something that comes from without? Without meaning outside of you.
People look for abundance outside of their selves.
They think it comes from money they earn, which is true and untrue.
They think it comes from doing hard work, which is true and untrue.
They think it depends on how much money there is in the world, which is true and untrue.
They think that there may not be enough for them, which is true and untrue.
You have to know what Abundance is if you hope to know where it comes from. Abundance is an energy, not printed cash. Therefore, abundance comes in many forms – you can have an abundance of money, of love, of food, friends, joy and so on.
People often think of abundance in terms of money, which only makes sense. However, if you limit the energy of abundance to making money then you will find yourself on the wrong track because you will be coming from without.
Abundance is an energy that we have to tune into and allow in our lives. It is a natural flow from our Source Energy and a flow that we need. When we don’t limit abundance to money from without then we open to the natural abundance that our Source has for us. We all experience some form of abundance in our lives, even if you don’t think that you do. You can’t help it, it is a natural part of our universe. The trick is to begin to recognize this. As you choose to recognize that you do experience some form of abundnace in your life then you begin to tap into this energy.
For example, my three year old daughter, who took the photo of her feet above, experiences abundance in many forms – though not necessarily monetarily. Sure, at the age of three it’s true that she doesn’t have money, but when she wants to hold money she knows where to find it. In other words, my daughter experiences abundance in many forms. One form is in her ability to take an abundance of photos (thank God for digital film/memory cards!) She doesn’t find many limits in her life: unlimited photos, unlimited laughter, playing and so on.
Although some people may not be in an allowing place to recognize that my daughter is experiencing abundance, hopefully you will because herein lies the secret of this universal law! When we experience abundance within, which my daughter does, then we can’t help but find abundance without. When we are joyful inside and when we allow the energy of abundance to come into us then we slowly (but hopefully quickly) and surely begin to find abundance reflected outside ourselves.
In part this is because we are holding the energy of abundance and, therefore, acitivating the Law of Attraction to bring abundance into our lives. It is similar, but the Law as within, so without more specifically stated that what you are within yourself you will see reflected outside of yourself; it’s not about what you will attract to yoruself but rather about what already is here within yourself and outside of yourself. It is a mirror.
What is within yourself? Are you finding the abundance you desire inside and outside of yourself? If not, realize what abundance is and begin to allow the energy of this aspect of what you are within yourself so that what is then reflected back to you, as Who your truly are, will match the natural abundance that you truly are.
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Kalyn B Raphael has been a teacher of spirituality for nearly ten years specializing in abundance & manifesting. She works with clients applying financial spiritual coaching to their lives, so that spiritual principals and universal laws are applied to their finances and their abundance. Kalyn and her husband Kris created a CD & workbook set, Manifesting Abundance, to help people improve their abundance. Kalyn also works with private clients (contact her for an appointment) and is creating a financial class for this summer. To register for class please go to http://essence-love.com/financial-abundance-class~
A Universal Law is that your will cannot be crossed: not by another person nor by your Source Energy. Therefore, if you will hold a belief that something cannot be, then it will not.
Ask yourself, what am I desiring in my life and do I hold beliefs that will not allow this? Am I truly unwilling to allow this into my life?
The Law of Attraction abides by your energy. If your energy is unwilling, even if the unwillingness is buried deep down in your beliefs, then your energy will not truly flow in the direction of what you wish to attract into your life.
On the other hand, if you find that you have allowed the energy of unwillingness to flow within you, then you will find that your energy cannot help but attract what you desire and dream of.
“There is ever only one thing to gain- no matter the circumstance or the experience- and that is the Who & What you truly are.”
Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle
For any of us who are interested in changing our lives or our world–
For those of us who would like to use The Law of Attraction to attract everything to we that we desire—
Are you curious about the fact that to some people colors seem brighter, smells seem stronger, feelings seem more pronounced, in sum life can be a beautiful experience?
We can change our world. We can have a spiritual awakening. It is easier than most of us probably think. All it requires is living our life knowing that every experience and every circumstance is about us. They are not about others nor what another has done to or for us. Every experience and circumstance is here to show us to ourselves. Every experience is here to help us come to come to know who we truly are.
If we have an experience we don’t like, we are learning something about ourselves we don’t like. Let’s not fool ourselves, otherwise we’ll miss our awakening! The experience is not here to show us what we don’t like about life or another person. The experience is here to show us something we don’t like about ourselves. I know, it seems like the someone or something in our experience is what we don’t like, but that’s not really it.
Tonight I saw my old teacher, don Miguel Ruiz (author of the bestselling The Four Agreements), on a late night show on TV here in Mexico. He spoke of the agreement not to take things personally. We can’t take life or another personally because the experience we are having is our own. The person or the experience belong to us. We shouldn’t take them personally because life is just life. People are just people, whether they are kind or rude.
What we should take to heart is our experience. It is happening to us for us. The Law of Attraction says that our experience is us and that it is happening to us because an energy within us attracts what we then experience.
This occurs so that we may become aware of our energy. At that point, we come to realize that we can’t take what happens to us personally, because the circumstances are our energy. We can take our energy personally, because it is ours; it attracted the experience. We need to look at why we attract the experiences that we attract to ourselves so that we can then shift this, improve it within ourselves.
But we can’t take other people personally, as don Miguel says, because they only served the universe in showing us our own energy. Perhaps instead of taking them personally, we should thank people and life circumstances for helping us!
One big step towards our enlightenment requires realizing that people and circumstances are not to be hated or blamed, but rather seen as opportunities for our benefit. These numerous opportunities are truly one opportunity masked by various different experiences, and that is the opportunity to come to know who and what we truly are.
At ever turn, life pushes our buttons and causes us problems. At every turn we have the opportunity to choose to reconnect with our Source Energy. Every circumstance and every experience brings us the choice of seeing who and what we truly are by flowing our energy, putting us into our to our Golden Flow (TM), the place of our connection with our Source Energy, or the opportunity to stay out of our flow. When we choose to stay out of our flow we are truly choosing negative emotions, such as blame, irritation, judgment and so on. These emotions are negative because they lack our Source’s Flow. They are stagnant energies that keep us attached to limiting beliefs. How so? For example, if someone has wronged us, we may be angry and say something that is rude to another, because we believe that they should not have wronged us. We therefore justify our negative emotion and our behavior.
This kind of thinking and these kinds of feelings are detrimental to us. They keep us in that stagnant belief. On the contrary, if we are going to recognize that every circumstance and experience is here to help us know who and what we are, then we are going to dismiss the person who wronged us.
Instead, we are going to focus on our energy and how we feel, allowing our feelings to flow. When we allow our feelings to flow we place ourselves back into our Source’s flow, thus placing ourselves back into a place of light and a place of love. We allow ourselves to let the anger go at which point the feeling is then replaced by a connection to Source Energy.
Allowing ourselves to flow our energy in this way, with every circumstance and every experience that we can, brings us to a place of connection with our Source Energy. This connection paves a quick path toward our Spiritual awakening and at this place, we can’t help but come to know who and what we truly are–an aspect of Source Energy having a joyous and meaningful life journey.
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Kalyn has been a spiritual guide helping seekers find the way to connecting with their Source Energy, to their dreams and to their well-being for close to a decade. Kalyn works with Kris, her husband, leading journeys, workshops and also gives classes, working in groups and with individuals. Find out about working wtih Kalyn or about downloading free materials at www.Essence-Love.com
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