Kalyn Raphael

Part Four:

Looking Back

So, today, on the day of the anniversary of my birth, I had gratitude. I talked with a friend and business partner who I’d been trying to catch on the phone for a couple weeks and who caught me during the only five minutes I was online all week, and I was grateful. I hugged my husband and my daughter and told my dad and his wife how grateful I am to be here traveling with them all. I bought a small gift for some girlfriends who I will see in a few weeks and I was grateful to have fun doing so. I loved my last morning in Mérida, where we had breakfast and then walked downtown. We found a new church whose energy was refreshing and revitalizing, and I prayed about my gratitude.

Now on the plane I am thinking about the many gifts and the whispered secrets life has generously given me; I think about the pelican, about the magical places I’ve seen, the new adventures that will come to me because of this trip and I’m grateful. I’m grateful that I know.

I’m grateful to be in my Golden Flow™ and to know that gratitude will keep me soaring in the wind and in my life. I know who I am, the person who allows and flows with life. I know what I want my life to be like and I know how to get there. And I know that my flow and my knowingness will continue to expand and unfold, brining me greater adventures, dreams and experiences in my life.

That is what knowingness can be like in the flow state.

Part Three:

Sunshine

On this trip we did a lot of driving from one city to another, from one site to the next. What a blessing! I was so grateful to get to see to pyramids, which I love seeing. Their energy is always so magical. I feel loved, supported; in my flow. I feel empowered, impacted and able. I am more of myself. I had already known that sacred sites tap me right into my Source Flow.

Focusing on the many things I was discovering and enjoying on this trip has made it easy to stay in my flow this week. Even my dad and his wife’s custom to keep a full schedule, which wore me down quickly from a lack of time to connect with myself didn’t knock me out of my flow.

My dad’s wife, on the other hand, had a harder time than I did at times due to the heat and due to a few little spats between them. She is pretty sensitive to the sun and the heat. Being in the sun for too long gives her headaches, puts her in a bad mood and generally gives her body a hard time. In the car, I’m the opposite. The air conditioning tends to chill me so I prefer the sunny side of the car. Sitting in the back of the car we were a perfect match! I’d warm up in the sun and she’d cool down in the shade. However, being as bothered with the sun as she was, she tended to attract the sunny side of the car, no matter what. She would ask which direction we were driving in to try to avoid the sun or she would trade me sides when we stopped for gas but, inevitably, her side of the car would be hot. While I kept warm with my shall, she got headaches and grumpy.

Once again I couldn’t help but see what life was putting right in front of me. How could I miss it? I heard my father’s wife struggle with the sun every day. Here what struck me most was the fact that it didn’t matter what she did to try to stay shaded because, in her lack of flow, her efforts were fruitless. On the contrary, I was fine. I had brought my crocheting, which I quickly pulled out at the beginning of our road trip to entertain myself. This really helped the time in the car go by quickly for me, putting me in my flow. My dad’s wife, unfortunately, saw me take my crocheting out, sighed and told me that my dad had told her not to take up space by carrying hers since we were flying. Now she longingly looked at my yarn and crochet hook and sighed again. I suggested she buy some yarn and a hook the first chance she could, which she did. Clearly this helped her entertain herself in the car, but she still struggled with being over-heated.

Life’s point this time was a pronounced example of how we really do attract experiences that reflect our energy. She and I each had temperature sensitivity issues and we each crochet, but my experience was far more pleasant than hers. I know that I need to make the choices in life that are most in my flow. I need to allow.

This was a great, illustrated example. So often people talk about being in the flow or having had a great time on a vacation, but they are often comparing apples and oranges. In this life example, she and I are both saying that we had a great vacation and a great time. Nevertheless, I had a completely different experience than she did in many ways, namely by feeling light, enjoying, welcoming the experiences that came my way, even the long day trips that I didn’t prefer or some negativity towards life my dad expressed. Whereas she was grumpy at least once a day, she often said she was having a good time but obviously didn’t mean it and felt ill a few times. Now, I’m not saying she didn’t have a good time, I’m just saying that we had very distinct experiences and that, in my flow state I allowed joy, adventure and knowingness in my experience. Quite a juxtaposition to her journey’s challenges.

Part Two:

The Pelican’s Glide

As the co-founder of The Golden Flow™ system, I know quite a bit about being in my flow, about what the flow state is and about using the energy of Source to create my life. Nevertheless, while visiting Celestún I had a great flowing experience.

We’d come here to see the mangroves, pink flamingos, pelicans and other wild birds that live here. After buying our tickets we walked to the end of the dock, stepped carefully into a boat that sat up to ten passengers and waited for our guide to start the engine. This area of Mexico tends to be very hot and muggy, but this mid-December day was beautiful and pleasant. We began admiring the red water (a natural phenomenon that occurs this time of year when the red tree trunks from the mangrove paint the water) as we waited patiently for our guide to try to start the boat’s engine. After the first three or four tries I wondered if we’d have to change boats. Another couple of tries and we were off! It wasn’t long before the peninsula brought us to several large birds on the mangroves, in the water and some flying by.

To my surprise, one pelican seemed to be flying in the same direction we were traveling in. The boat was traveling quickly, but the pelican not only kept up with us, but even started going faster than us. The pelican didn’t flap its wings and it wasn’t a windy day. This bird truly caught my eye because he was clearly showing me still more about the power of being in the flow state. The bird clearly illustrated to me something profound about life.

I couldn’t help but notice the side-by-side comparison life was placing before me. While we traveled in this loud, bumpy boat whose engine, no doubt, burned more than it’s share of gas, this pelican flew effortlessly, more smoothly and traveled faster than we did.

All the efforts of our man-made boat, mechanical engine and our ability to travel quickly on the water to a bird sanctuary looked small next to this pelican. Our efforts seemed huge while the pelican’s gliding was smooth, divine. I also noticed that with our intelligence, humanity had found a way to break a natural law by traveling on water through the invention of the boat. Well, the pelican naturally broke a law of mine because it traveled on air. While our invention took efforting and ingenuity, which is great, the pelican’s flight only took allowing the flow, which turned out to be more powerful.

The message was clear. The pelican had more grace, more elegance and more power because she was using the flow state. She was allowing life to carry her, to guide her and to give her more than we had. She was saving her energy, whereas we were using ours in the form of money for the tour, gas for the boat and so on.

Again, I am reminded of my teachers because I know the impact of this message. It is telling me to increase my allowing in my life; to get further still into my flow and to effort less in my life. I know that if I do so, my life will bring me even more with even less work on my part. My life will also bring me more than I could ever create on my own.

Perception & You

Have you ever noticed or gotten frustrated with, what seems like, things changing?

In other words, have you ever gone down the same road to get to the same place and felt like the turn off wasn’t there? Or, hopefully you have had a better experience: We headed down to San Miguel de Allende.  Last time the trip took 26 hours. You’d think that the same trip would take the same amount of time, but things changed. All of a sudden there was another highway that we could take, which was a smoother ride – and shorter. Once we crossed the boarder the same highway we had taken last time also went quicker and seemed different. More beautiful and with less toll booths.

How could this be? How can the same highway on the same road give us such a different experience? Sure, a new highway may give a different result, but how does the same highway do this?

The answer is easy – we are bending physicality. While the rules of physicality, or form, are constant one thing is not. That one thing is energy.

When you are in your flow, your energy is different and the energy you attract is different. When you are out of your flow your energy is vibrating lower than when you are in the flow and what you attract vibrates lower as well. Another way of saying this is that in a higher energy, or your flow (what is often called the vortex) even the same highway provides a different experience all together.

This difference is accounted for by the shift in perception we experience from the energy we hold. But, for now this is not relevant.

What is relevant is that when we get into our flow of well-being, we shift our energy and our whole experience. If you don’t like something you are experiencing or if you want to change what you experience in the future, the place to focus is on yourself. Get yourself into your Source Flow and your life will change, improve.

Too often our egos, or the parts of us that are out of the flow and justify being here, tell us that we don’t deserve to be in a better place. Or there is some other reason or excuse for our not being in a better place. Do you buy this?

If you are not in a better place, you have believed that you belong where you do. After all, that is why you are experiencing what you are experiencing. No worries though, you can change this.

Even if you are in your flow you can change this and improve it! Do so, decide for yourself that I am right and that you can improve your life, you can attract what you prefer. After all, I’m doing it so why can’t you?

Welcome your experience and let it flow. Take a few minutes out of your busy day to talk to your Source and tell it/you that you are ready for a change. You are ready to be the You that is in a better place. And then allow that better place to come to you.

Use the amazing resources that are available in our day and age – use the free Golden Flow(TM) process we offer at http:golden-flow-system.com – use what ever it takes, because you are worth it! You are meant to have the experience you prefer, even if you are going down the same road.

Love & Light,

Kalyn

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

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A message for You About These Times & About Increasing Your Use of the Law of Attraction

These have been turbulent times and it seems as though they will be getting even rougher. It seems that this is the first time that the world has ridden a low together with the world markets having the problems that they are.

Nevertheless, The Oracle says that this time is meant to serve us & a time to increase our ability to attract using LOA (Law of Attraction)-

“These times are offering you guidance – they make you want for your life to have a smoother flow. They help you know Who you truly are, what is important to you and how you truly wish to express yourself. In other words, they help you get deeper and know how you desire your life to be.”

Within us all I think that we know that these times are returning our focus inward toward Who we are and what we want, as The Oracle says. However, I don’t know that we always know how to do this. Here are some powerful ways:

Be Important Enough To Talk With Your God

It is important in these times to connect to Who we truly are, therefore it is important to give yourself permission or time to talk to your Source Energy, your God or your Creator. Many of us grow up believing that we are not worthy of our Source Energy’s ear or that we are not important enough to have an opinion that matters.

This is false. On the contrary, it is very important to speak up for ourselves and to communicate how our life is going. It is even more important to talk to our Source Energy about what we desire. When we do this on a regular basis, we will find that we begin to feel as though we are being heard, as though our prayers are answered and as though we ever receive responses. We also will notice that we are activating powerful energies within us as well as energies of connection to our Source Energy. These energies will attract desirable things to us through LOA.

Have Many Dreams & Desires

We also tend to feel that if we only have a few – or just one- dream, then it is more likely to be granted, since we are not being greedy. We deny our own dreams and desires, as if the dreams that come to us naturally are a bad thing, something we should deny.

Again, this is false. Have you ever noticed that your dreams coming to you are as automatic as your breathing? Have you seen that you wish for things, whether you mean to or not?

Have you ever allowed yourself to feel like your dreams were going to come true and then felt the well-being that accompanies the fulfillment of our dreams? Our dreams do fulfill us, they make us Who we truly are, even when we are just dreaming about our desires manifesting in our lives. Our dreams are one of our connections to our Source Energy and when we allow ourselves to dream about our desires we get closer to our Source. Have you noticed that you feel more loved when you are dreaming? When you are more connected this way, your energy increases. And this, again, increasing your ability to attract what you desire into your life though LOA.

The Actions That Are Called For

These are the actions that we are meant to take now. They are also the actions that many of us will automatically take (or have been) because that is how the energy is flowing in these times. While the world is having difficulties on a larger scale, there really is the opportunity for us to bring a lot of quality, love and fulfillment to our lives. This will be the trend and this will be the direction people will head in. The old days of shopping and being a lot of things will be replaced with less, but more meaningful, things. Quantity will be replaced more and more with quality.

You will find quality and fulfillment in your life when you speak with your Source Energy or your God often and when you allow yourself to have desires for your life. This allowing and this connecting will create a new life for each of us do so. We will leave a more beautiful and meaningful life. We will live the life of our dreams.

How we treat ourselves and what we do in these turbulent times will greatly affect our futures. When you are connected and dreaming you will find that your future will just come to you, you will have attracted it. When you are disconnected and without dreams you will find that the future holds no promise.

Today was a wonderful day for no good reason.

Once upon a time – a terrible, uncomfortable and not so-fun time- I used to think that I needed certain things to be happy. There were  things I thought I needed like money, to be intelligence and to be loved by the right people. In other words, if I was doing things “right” then I knew I would be blessed by life. I would have a good life. Yes, I’m saying that I thought that these things outside of me would create happiness inside of me…

Well, once upon a time I was very unhappy. The things that I thought would make me happy or make me feel good were there sometimes and missing at other times but either way I was unhappy and certain life was not only not blessing me, but punihsing me daily! Ouch!

Tonight I watched Grey’s Anatomy and it was a wonderful episode. In the show everyone, of course, has their issues and their problems, but in today’s episode they put all of the ways life is “supposed to be” aside and instead allowed for a wonderful day. They each allowed for theirselves to let go of what they were grasping for in life – being a good doctor that doesn’t lose patience, being a person with money and such- and instead focused on what was there for them. Now they were enjoying something special and feeling good about life, regardless of what was wrong.

Today my daughter and I watered the plants. While I think life should be such that all my trees would be flourishing, I allowed myself to feel sad that two of our trees, including my favorite that I picked out at the nursery, are very likely dead. Very likely. Then I let this flow. And then I enjoyed the beautiful trees that we have.

Today I made lunch and dinner while trying to take care of 10 other things. While I think I would be happier with a maid and a cook, I let myself feel bombarded with life. Then I let this too flow, at which point I easily focused on the joy of the connection I feel with my family and I felt gratitude for the love in my life.

Today we went for a walk with the dogs. While I’m sure I should be walking more to get more exercise, I simply didn’t care. Instead I looked at my three year old and saw that she was really enjoying the dogs running and playing together so I told her that we should run and catch them. She thought this was great and laughed and laughed.

Sure, some things went “wrong” today and there were a few things I didn’t like. If I need to take care of something I will, but in the meantime I’ll let these things flow.

I’ll focus on the things that life did bring me today, the things that brought me joy. The things that made for a wonderful day. Today I allowed for a wonderful day.

Life isn’t perfect and it will never be what we think it should be. Nevertheless, in our Golden Flow(TM) we can allow for a wonderful day more and more often.

“To have the dreams you desire, you need to be willing to change. You need to be willing to change from not having your dreams, to having them–from not being the you of your dreams, to being him/her. Allow that change in your life.”

The Oracle

Question: I love this quote but am not sure I fully understand it – to see him instead of me? Can you explain this please Kalyn – this could be my final frontier as am only kind, only loving, always sharing and always feeling grateful and visualising yet some block is there as am not allowing my abundance to flourish. Have so much spiritual knowledge yet unless God has a purpose I am not sure of then I have missed something in this…
Bless you – I look forward to your thoughts

Answer:

This quote refers to our self image. We all see ourselves a certain way: for example I have a student who saw himself as not being very worthy or capable in life. However, in his dreams and desires he saw himself as someone with a business of his own and a family.

As he has allowed himself to see the “him” with a business and family, he has begun to identify with a more confidant and capable part of himself (and has been developing this). Today he is engaged and has had his first small business for over a year.

He really began to shift his life when he shifted his self-image, how he saw himself. The more he saw himself as the confident version of himself, the more he became it.

In your case, you want to start to see yourself as the you with abundance. Notice what he is like and really become him in your thoughts, feelings and actions.

Blessings,

Kalyn

A Universal Law is that your will cannot be crossed: not by another person nor by your Source Energy. Therefore, if you will hold a belief that something cannot be, then it will not.

Ask yourself, what am I desiring in my life and do I hold beliefs that will not allow this? Am I truly unwilling to allow this into my life?

The Law of Attraction abides by your energy. If your energy is unwilling, even if the unwillingness is buried deep down in your beliefs,  then your energy will not truly flow in the direction of what you wish to attract into your life.

On the other hand, if you find that you have allowed the energy of unwillingness to flow within you, then you will find that your energy cannot help but attract what you desire and dream of.

We wish you the life you dream of~

In other words, when you address your problem as if you were the you who is living your dreams, as if you were the You who has already realized the life that you desire, then you will address your problems with a higher vibrating energy. Some people think that life brings them “tests” to see if they are ready for the next level. This is untrue, as life only brings you what you asked for.

And what you asked for was your dream, whether you are asking for it consciously or subconsciously. You are always moving in the direction of what you dream of and who you dream of becoming. Life responds by bringing you the energy that you are attracting to yourself, using LOA, through your dream.

When your dreams come to you, knocking on your door, they may look, at first, like a problem or something undesirable. They are not; they are simply the higher vibrating dream you asked for that you simply do not yet recognize, as you are still in the process of raising your energy.

Open the door to your problems and your joys, as they both are a part of the experience of your life that is raising your energy and that is bringing you the life you dream of.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

“Find something you are grateful for in your day today.

As you feel what you are grateful for, notice what it does for your mood.

Notice what it does for your attitude and for what you feel about your life.

Notice if it makes your life feel better, more livable, more desirable,

notice if your desires, your dreams,  feel more achievable.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle