Kalyn Raphael

November 17th, 2009 by Kalyn

Allow & Align

I am in a highly creative/dreaming (or attracting) mode. I have been spending time every evening to flow my energy and have now turned the corner into flowing my dreams.

Last night I began to dream about where I want to be in five years, what I want to be doing. During the dreaming I activated this energy and allowed the desire to take more and more shape. Afterwards I worked on aligning my energy to the desire. In the alignment process I found bridges between my days now and my days in my dreams five years from now.

So today I will be bridging this energy. I will be experiencing the energy of my fulfilled dreams and a few manifestations today, instead of waiting five years and shortening the time it will take for my dreams to come forward. Why wait five years?

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Kalyn B Raphael

Learn more about Kalyn & working with her: www.kalynraphael.com

Question:

Thanks for your answer. I have had and have problems i havnt handled yet and were , are too much for me, including things I cant personallx control. Who said life only gives us what we can handle or that we are given problems to overcomethem? That person wasnt a god I dont think. Its like a lot of new age sayings. There is an answer for everything. While many may be true I am in the habit of questioning their validity. Maybe my problems will be resolved under the right circumstances and after some time. But then hnw much time? You haveto know what difficulties are in peoples lives personally. Itr ok for some person, maybe not you to have life coaching clients or sell a personal development course. Life is not so good for a number of people and many would like to improve things if they could. Its easier to be in the flow if you feel good and life is going well for you. I wrote about life flow many yearsago. My friend was into it even before me. I only have mobile internet at present. Im ok but mainly as Im a strong person. In my view I have to be connected to universal flow, people and opportunities. I spend much time alone when not at art school and work. Ive studied lots of these self development subjects before. I do have lots of good things in my life too. Many will inprove over time. I have very little money and much debt so cant do much yet in many areas including seeing my son. So i dont think flow wil solve that immediately. I am always open to possibilities though and not that negative. Just with healthy realism too. Anyway if you have problems as you say maybe I can help you as i have had lots of life experience ok?

Best wishes X

Answer:

Hi X,

I appreciate the offer, but I see that I need to clarify.

I am a spiritual life coach. At this point in my personal path I don’t have “problems” in my life so much as challenges. What I mean by this is that I no longer have the experience of having more than I can handle and I know how to handle things. I know how to work with the flow of life at which point my dreams have come true.

I have worked with many people over the years and I have seen a lot of people go from feeling overwhelmed in life and like they don’t know how or feel they can’t make things work to turning this around. I have had clients go from being unhappy employees to changing careers, status or starting their own businesses.

I have had clients who have a very difficult time attracting or keeping relationships, especially healthy ones, to them attracting the right person and getting married.

I think it is wonderful that you question things. You should question everything, including the way you think and the choices you make in life, as this is what shifts your energy, your life and what you experience.

? Kalyn

Unfortunately, I see so mnay people I work with not being honest with themselves.And this just attracts frustration and disillusionment.

Don Juan, from Castaneda’s books, spoke of the importance of being brtally honest with the self. This is because when we lie and tell ourselves what we want to hear, we later run into problems when things are not working out the way we would prefer.

We are all extraordinary in the eyes of Source. This means that we each have our own gifts and we are each a unique being, even though we are a part of the hole. We are meant to live the joy of life and of feeling the love that our Source Energy has for us, but this becomes difficult or impossible when we are not honest with ourselves.

The little white lies are some of the worst. They seem innocent and unimportant, however they really activate energies that remove clarity from our lives. One of my current clients is having a difficult time with this. On the one hand, he likes to tell himself that things are the way he wants them to be, but then becomes frustrated when he encounters abrasive experiences in his life. For example, he likes to tell himself that he likes people and likes being around people but removes himself from social situations quickly. He says that he likes being alone too. The white lie about liking to be around people is causing a split, which you can easily see. The statement that he likes to be around people, but avoids social situations and the statement that he likes being alone tell a different story. They reveal the contradiction, caused by the lie. The difficulty is then compounded when he has difficulties in his relationship. He loves his partner, but can’t figure out why they are experiencing tension. He can’t understand why they don’t communicate well and he is perplexed at why they sometimes prefer not to spend time together when the opportunity arises.

Of course, the answer is obvious when we are not believing the lie. The problem is that he doesn’t do well interacting with people.

Shen we are honest with ourselves we are empowered to create the changes we want since we know what the situation is all about. In the case of my client, when he started to get honest with himself he recognized the problem. Needless to say, he also saw that he had been avoiding the truth because it hurt some to see that he wanted to be a person who knew how to connect with others, but was not.

Knowing this, he now was able to make an empowerd choice. He chose to welcome what he did not like in himself, namely his inability to connect with others the way he would like to, and began to flow this. As he shifted the energy that was out of alignment in himself, he found that his ability to interract with others, including his mate, improved.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

Learn more about the Golden Flow™ system & download a free audio process at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

“All that truly exists is the Now moment. However, if you are going
to go to your past, use it wisely.

Use the memories you have to remember how many dreams you used to have and notice how they have come forward.
Use the memories to remember how overwhelmed you felt with your problems and notice how you overcame them.
Use the memories to remember how you have wanted love in your life and remember how it has come.

That would be an aligned use of getting out of your Now moment, as it would increase your confidence that you can live the life you prefer.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

Travel through time~ Join us as we enter the world of energy on our Teotihuacan Journey http://mystical-odyssey.com/teotihuacansma09

A Bonus San Miguel de Allende Ladies Gathering With Kalyn

in SMA, Mexico

January 3-5th (3 days following Journey)

Ladies Gathering

Three quality days connecting with the ladies~

Join Kalyn for a Ladies Three Day Intensive where we will gather together as women, allowing the aspects of femininity to come forward.

The feminine flow is one in which quality rules. Women in their femininity bring forth great joy and add an enchanting aspect to life that brings great beauty, great color and heart to our own lives and those we touch. In her feminine flow, life flows smoothly and elegantly. Days take on a softness during our Ladies gatherings that is unmatched. A sisterhood is created in which we can bond and share our experiences and our dreams, helping one another bring these forward.

Activities

• Meditating
• Group Lunches
• Tarot Readings & Reading Lessons
• A day of Flowing with Source at La Gruta (weather permitting – bring your bathing suit!)
  

Ladies Gather Fee

$500 or $400 Reduced pricing for those attending the Becoming Who You Truly Are Journey-

Please call Kalyn for more information or to register (505) 670-2288

The Ladies Gathering Fee Includes:
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Additional Costs:
-Lodging
-Meals
-Personal purchases
-Transportation to San Miguel de Allende, unless participant is already here for the Magical Miguel Journey
-Entrance and transportation to an excursion

Recommended Lodging
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Double occupancy rooms are approximately $150 per night & they include breakfast. Please note that these rates vary depending on the current exchange rate~

It’s Sunday today, we arrived on Thursday. As always, the August jungle is hot, humid, thick and captivating. Of course, it feels hotter to me than it has in the past, but no doubt it always feels this way since I am accustomed to the high desert’s arid, hot summers in Santa Fe.

As always, our hotel is larger than life. A glass of Champaign greeted us at the Premier Lobby, one of four lobbies. Our room was a welcome site – air conditioning, a towel elephant with a flower on it, a fruit basket and beach towels ready to go.

So three days have flown by. We attended Troy & Tina’s wedding rehearsal dinner Friday and the wedding Saturday. Tina is looking beautiful, like a soft, gentle goddess and Troy has been cool as a cucumber in his handsome, ragged way. His day has come and one of his biggest dreams has come true. Now that is a sight to see, I wouldn’t have missed this for anything.

The Mayan wedding ceremony was wonderful. Copal smoke sailed by in the ocean breeze as the couple were blessed, bathed (gently) in beans, were given wedding flowers to wear and had their souls blended with flower petals.

There is no arguing it, this is paradise. The all-inclusive hotel provides delectable meals, unlimited drinks and other such amenities to take care of your every need. Attending a wedding here has been magical from the ocean’s breath to the pre-historic-looking birds flying over head and the Mayan sounds at the ceremony.

As if this weren’t enough, I have been receiving many energetic blessings myself. I have a calling to go to a pyramid of Coba where I know I will re-connect with the energy of the past lives I have seen here and with the messages that are meant to guide me in my own journey through life.

I consider myself blessed to live in my flow.

By Simon Townsen

About one year ago, I was at a turning point in my life. I had been walking my spiritual path for some time, but there was some sense of dissatisfaction. I wanted more. I wanted more connection. I wanted more abundance. I wanted more freedom. I wanted to be able to express who and what I was more freely.

So I set about changing my life. The first thing I worked on was career. I desperately wanted to find not just a job, but a career, a place where I was motivated, where I was giving the best of my Self to my company, to the people I worked with, to our clients and customers. At the time I was working for Merrill Lynch, and to be honest, I was not happy. So I had begun applying for jobs, and I was grasping at finding new work, more meaningful work.

I sat down with my Life Coach and Personal Guide, Kalyn, and she introduced me to what she called the Golden Flow. She told me to tune into what I desired. As she did I could feel that pull, that strong will to live a deeper more meaningful life, and to have that expressed through my career. She asked me, can you welcome that in? I said, “Yes.” And so I welcomed in all those feelings at deeper and deeper levels.

Then she said to me, “Can you let that flow? Can you let those feelings float downstream.” Instantly, I felt the grasp. I didn’t want to let go of that meaning, that sense of purpose. I wanted to hold on to it. But as I opened to the possibility of letting go of that grasp, for life to be different than what it was, there was this opening, this relief. There was this sense of acceptance of my life as it was. I could see myself still taking actions to get a new job, but it
wasn’t forced. I wasn’t grasping at it. Nor was I repelling my current work. I was allowing it all to be in my life. And I felt so empowered.

I suddenly felt as if I could choose from my Self rather than choosing from my fear, my lack, my grasp, or my repel. Three days later I had the career I desired. That is the magic of life.

I wish I could say that I understood the power of this simple practice right away, but the truth is, I did not. I like to think that I’m a rather bright guy, so doing something so simple seemed too easy. I felt like if things in my life were really going to change, it needed to be complex, there needed to be some deep metaphysical principals behind it (there
are–actually in this process–but knowing or not knowing the principals does not change the process, and does not make it work any better).

However, over the course of the past year, I have worked with this process, and I have seen again and again how powerful a force it can be to change my life. I have developed much more awareness as to where I am at, what I am grasping at, what I am repelling. I have seen
that all these reactions are not who I really am. They are simply an illusion. But I have spent so much of my life believing them, hooked into them, allowing the energy of these negative beliefs to rule my perception of the world, the choices that I take, basically all of my life.

The more I have welcomed, flowed, and allowed my life to be what it is, the more I have come into a place of empowerment, and of joy–a feeling that my life already has the purpose and the meaning that I have been longing for. There is a sense that my life is a mystery and the path is unfolding beneath my feet just as it should. I am where I need to be doing what I need to do. And the more I allow this, the more I flow with this, the more magic I find in each moment. Life loses that sense of struggle, and instead opens up at deeper and
deeper levels of magic and mystery.

I want to thank Kris and Kalyn for bringing this process through. If you have not had the chance, I really do recommend checking out their site:http://golden-flow-system.com/ There’s a bunch of resources to work with.

Resistence-Free

“Your dreams are inevitable – how long it takes them to arrive is  just dependent on how much resistance you choose to hold.”

-The Oracle

I love what this world is coming to!

Yes, there are a lot of problems in the world, most of which are getting worse, but they are only getting worse because people have resistance.  You can just imagine what that the Law of Attraction does with that resistance!

The world is truly coming to a place where authenticity will be easier to find within ourselves and where being in our flow will become more and more normal. Authenticity is already natural, though most of us lose site of this and we become normal and in-authentic, like most others. So, you might say that our world is coming to a place where it is becoming easier to return to our natural state of being. That natural, authentic state of being is resistance-free, at which point our magnetism for attracting is huge.

Resistance is a block to our energetic flow. Resistances block the energy of our Source coming down to us, impeding our receiving that energy.

Why not have a resistance-free reality? Why not notice what is bothering you, what is rubbing you the wrong way and release the resistance? Why not allow yourself to be aware of the reistance you have to yourself, flow what you don’t like and come to a place where you love yourself? Love is the most powerful magnetic attractor.

Life is simple. Realizing a resistance-free reality is simple. Us coming to the place where we choose this isn’t necessesarily easy. But the world is helping us, with all its problems. The problems make it easier for us to realize we don’t need problems or resistance. Just joy and love.

And in joy and love we come to live a resistance-free reality!

Why is Resistance So Hard To Let Go Of?

The truth is there is only one reason: we don’t want to let go. Generally we don’t want to let go because we have a misperception within us that incorrectly thinks that if we are not resisting then we won’t get what we want? As if closing the door will allow new friends to come in! Sounds silly, I know, but that is what resistance does.

Stop and think about what you are resisting. I’m very sorry to say that most of us are resisting something all of the time. We are resisting being loved because we think we’ll be hurt; we resist having the life we want because subconsciously we are afraid of what we want. For example, I have a student who has a strong desire for a relationship. However, she is also very weary of men and their motivations. Under these circumstances, how will she be open enough to allow men to be themselves and to come forward in a relationship? Her resistance keeps her from allowing men to get closer to her. On the other hand, if she chose to let this resistance flow away then she would find several men knocking at her door.

Nothing to Fear

In my above example, my student resists relationship because she has been hurt in the past. However, why fear what you don’t want or what has happened in the past? Why resist what you desire  in the present? The only reason to resist your desires is because you are assuming that your desire will include something painful or unwanted. Why make that assumption? Why not paint a dream for yourself of your life the way you want it minus what you don’t want?

Your Source Energy does not seek to bring you a great life with a little torture on the side! Your Source Energy is you! It is important for you to know what you do and don’t want. Resist neither of them and then have the resistance-free and joyful life you dream of!

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.

Seeing Clearly

They say love is blind, but what they mean is that when we are drunk with infatuation our clarity is missing.

Real love is about caring for someone, starting with ourselves. Real love is nurturing, brings health in all forms and it is allowing. It, therefore, cannot be blind, lack clarity or lack benevolence. Intoxication and infatuation, on the other hand, tend to be about being blind, unclear and causing harm (whether to ourselves or another).

To think that love is blind is to excuse harmful and damaging acts that are done “out of love”, such as physical abuse. There is no love in abuse, whether it is done self to self or from one person to another.

Love yourself and don’t allow for the blind excuses. Know love firsthand for yourself – by loving yourself- and you will have an experience of your Source Energy that is beyond words… Your vision will be crystal clear.

When you love yourself it is difficult for things to go wrong in life because you take everything in stride. You do so because your love keeps you secure, confidant and connected to your Source Energy. You know that even when you attract something undesirable in your life it doesn’t matter because nothing can truly harm you or threaten the love you have inside. As a matter of fact, the love inside reflects in your life such that you really appreciate, enjoy and even love the people around you, your job, and your life.

When you love yourself you allow yourself to have clarity as to what is best for you and you follow through. You allow yourself to be free to receive the gifts of life, of romantic love and more. You allow yourself to have it all, including a spiritual partnership that is beneficial to you both.

When you love yourself you allow yourself to be Who you truly are, a piece of your Source Energy.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.

A message for You About These Times & About Increasing Your Use of the Law of Attraction

These have been turbulent times and it seems as though they will be getting even rougher. It seems that this is the first time that the world has ridden a low together with the world markets having the problems that they are.

Nevertheless, The Oracle says that this time is meant to serve us & a time to increase our ability to attract using LOA (Law of Attraction)-

“These times are offering you guidance – they make you want for your life to have a smoother flow. They help you know Who you truly are, what is important to you and how you truly wish to express yourself. In other words, they help you get deeper and know how you desire your life to be.”

Within us all I think that we know that these times are returning our focus inward toward Who we are and what we want, as The Oracle says. However, I don’t know that we always know how to do this. Here are some powerful ways:

Be Important Enough To Talk With Your God

It is important in these times to connect to Who we truly are, therefore it is important to give yourself permission or time to talk to your Source Energy, your God or your Creator. Many of us grow up believing that we are not worthy of our Source Energy’s ear or that we are not important enough to have an opinion that matters.

This is false. On the contrary, it is very important to speak up for ourselves and to communicate how our life is going. It is even more important to talk to our Source Energy about what we desire. When we do this on a regular basis, we will find that we begin to feel as though we are being heard, as though our prayers are answered and as though we ever receive responses. We also will notice that we are activating powerful energies within us as well as energies of connection to our Source Energy. These energies will attract desirable things to us through LOA.

Have Many Dreams & Desires

We also tend to feel that if we only have a few – or just one- dream, then it is more likely to be granted, since we are not being greedy. We deny our own dreams and desires, as if the dreams that come to us naturally are a bad thing, something we should deny.

Again, this is false. Have you ever noticed that your dreams coming to you are as automatic as your breathing? Have you seen that you wish for things, whether you mean to or not?

Have you ever allowed yourself to feel like your dreams were going to come true and then felt the well-being that accompanies the fulfillment of our dreams? Our dreams do fulfill us, they make us Who we truly are, even when we are just dreaming about our desires manifesting in our lives. Our dreams are one of our connections to our Source Energy and when we allow ourselves to dream about our desires we get closer to our Source. Have you noticed that you feel more loved when you are dreaming? When you are more connected this way, your energy increases. And this, again, increasing your ability to attract what you desire into your life though LOA.

The Actions That Are Called For

These are the actions that we are meant to take now. They are also the actions that many of us will automatically take (or have been) because that is how the energy is flowing in these times. While the world is having difficulties on a larger scale, there really is the opportunity for us to bring a lot of quality, love and fulfillment to our lives. This will be the trend and this will be the direction people will head in. The old days of shopping and being a lot of things will be replaced with less, but more meaningful, things. Quantity will be replaced more and more with quality.

You will find quality and fulfillment in your life when you speak with your Source Energy or your God often and when you allow yourself to have desires for your life. This allowing and this connecting will create a new life for each of us do so. We will leave a more beautiful and meaningful life. We will live the life of our dreams.

How we treat ourselves and what we do in these turbulent times will greatly affect our futures. When you are connected and dreaming you will find that your future will just come to you, you will have attracted it. When you are disconnected and without dreams you will find that the future holds no promise.