Kalyn Raphael

Resistence-Free

“Your dreams are inevitable – how long it takes them to arrive is  just dependent on how much resistance you choose to hold.”

-The Oracle

I love what this world is coming to!

Yes, there are a lot of problems in the world, most of which are getting worse, but they are only getting worse because people have resistance.  You can just imagine what that the Law of Attraction does with that resistance!

The world is truly coming to a place where authenticity will be easier to find within ourselves and where being in our flow will become more and more normal. Authenticity is already natural, though most of us lose site of this and we become normal and in-authentic, like most others. So, you might say that our world is coming to a place where it is becoming easier to return to our natural state of being. That natural, authentic state of being is resistance-free, at which point our magnetism for attracting is huge.

Resistance is a block to our energetic flow. Resistances block the energy of our Source coming down to us, impeding our receiving that energy.

Why not have a resistance-free reality? Why not notice what is bothering you, what is rubbing you the wrong way and release the resistance? Why not allow yourself to be aware of the reistance you have to yourself, flow what you don’t like and come to a place where you love yourself? Love is the most powerful magnetic attractor.

Life is simple. Realizing a resistance-free reality is simple. Us coming to the place where we choose this isn’t necessesarily easy. But the world is helping us, with all its problems. The problems make it easier for us to realize we don’t need problems or resistance. Just joy and love.

And in joy and love we come to live a resistance-free reality!

Why is Resistance So Hard To Let Go Of?

The truth is there is only one reason: we don’t want to let go. Generally we don’t want to let go because we have a misperception within us that incorrectly thinks that if we are not resisting then we won’t get what we want? As if closing the door will allow new friends to come in! Sounds silly, I know, but that is what resistance does.

Stop and think about what you are resisting. I’m very sorry to say that most of us are resisting something all of the time. We are resisting being loved because we think we’ll be hurt; we resist having the life we want because subconsciously we are afraid of what we want. For example, I have a student who has a strong desire for a relationship. However, she is also very weary of men and their motivations. Under these circumstances, how will she be open enough to allow men to be themselves and to come forward in a relationship? Her resistance keeps her from allowing men to get closer to her. On the other hand, if she chose to let this resistance flow away then she would find several men knocking at her door.

Nothing to Fear

In my above example, my student resists relationship because she has been hurt in the past. However, why fear what you don’t want or what has happened in the past? Why resist what you desire  in the present? The only reason to resist your desires is because you are assuming that your desire will include something painful or unwanted. Why make that assumption? Why not paint a dream for yourself of your life the way you want it minus what you don’t want?

Your Source Energy does not seek to bring you a great life with a little torture on the side! Your Source Energy is you! It is important for you to know what you do and don’t want. Resist neither of them and then have the resistance-free and joyful life you dream of!

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.

Be true to yourself. Nothing else matters.

People say things all the time, both positive and negative- but it is not always the truth. When it comes down to yourself, all that matters is You. Not even the truth or a lie, just you and how you are with yourself.

When you are true to yourself you find that speaking up for yourself and asking for what you need is not a bad thing. Knowing where you are in life and what you require is a very powerful position to be in. From here, being true to yourself is an easy flow. It is an easy flow because you have made yourself your priority.

The universe honors people making their selves a priority – please notice, I am specifically talking about making your mature, authentic self a priority. People easily confuse this with making the in-authentic self a priority. The in-authentic self is characterized my immaturity and ego. Making this in-authentic self a priority will only attract and create problems and difficulties in life.

When we put the in-authentic self first we can’t help but be detrimental to ourselves and to others.

When we put our Self (the authentic Self) first, we can’t help but benefit ourselves and others. We also can’t help but be true to ourselves.

“Flowing is a natural state to each of you. Every day, and as often as you can remember to do so in a day, allow your energy to flow. This means that you open to your Source Energy’s flow by welcoming your experience and then allowing it to flow, the way a twig flows downstream as you sit on a rock and watch it go by. Welcome each experience you are having and then watch all of your experiences flow down the river of your life. It is only then that you will experience a greater current of your Source Energy. It is only then that you will see the things you desire flowing to you and flowing into your life.”

“There is ever only one thing to gain- no matter the circumstance or the experience- and that is the Who & What you truly are.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

For any of us who are interested in changing our lives or our world–

For those of us who would like to use The Law of Attraction to attract everything to we that we desire—

Are you curious about the fact that to some people colors seem brighter, smells seem stronger, feelings seem more pronounced, in sum life can be a beautiful experience?

We can change our world.  We can have a spiritual awakening. It is easier than most of us probably think. All it requires is living our life knowing that every experience and every circumstance is about us. They are not about others nor what another has done to or for us. Every experience and circumstance is here to show us to ourselves. Every experience is here to help us come to come to know who we truly are.

Tonight I saw my old teacher, don Miguel Ruiz (author of the bestselling The Four Agreements), on a late night show on TV here in Mexico. He spoke of the agreement not to take things personally. We can’t take life or another personally because the experience we are having is our own. The person or the experience belong to us. We shouldn’t take them personally because life is just life. People are just people, whether they are kind or rude.

What we should take to heart is our experience. It is happening to us for us. The Law of Attraction says that our experience is us and that it is happening to us because an energy within us attracts what we then experience.

This occurs so that we may become aware of our energy. At that point, we come to realize that we can’t take what happens to us personally, because the circumstances are our energy. We can take our energy personally, because it is ours; it attracted the experience. We need to look at why we attract the experiences that we attract to ourselves so that we can then shift this, improve it within ourselves.

But we can’t take other people personally, as don Miguel says, because they only served the universe in showing us our own energy. Perhaps instead of taking them personally, we should thank people and life circumstances for helping us!

One big step towards our enlightenment requires realizing that people and circumstances are not to be hated or blamed, but rather seen as opportunities for our benefit. These numerous opportunities are truly one opportunity masked by various different experiences, and that is the opportunity to come to know who and what we truly are.

This kind of thinking and these kinds of feelings are detrimental to us. They keep us in that stagnant belief. On the contrary, if we are going to recognize that every circumstance and experience is here to help us know who and what we are, then we are going to dismiss the person who wronged us.

Allowing ourselves to flow our energy in this way, with every circumstance and every experience that we can, brings us to a place of connection with our Source Energy. This connection paves a quick path toward our Spiritual awakening and at this place, we can’t help but come to know who and what we truly are–an aspect of Source Energy having a joyous and meaningful life journey.

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Kalyn has been a spiritual guide helping seekers find the way to connecting with their Source Energy, to their dreams and to their well-being for close to a decade. Kalyn works with Kris, her husband, leading journeys, workshops and also gives classes, working in groups and with individuals. Find out about working wtih Kalyn or about downloading free materials at www.Essence-Love.com

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