Posts Tagged ‘Law of Attraction’
Loving All of Life
We all have our own world, two actually.
We have an inner world which holds our thoughts, feelings; our hopes and our dreams. We also have an outer world, the world we experience, which is generally our home, our family and such.
Do you love your world or worlds? Do you love your life?
There are people who say they do, even though they don’t. There are people who say they don’t like anything and that life is hard. A black and white world, in this way, is out of balance and inaccurate. A black and white world like this will take us right out of the flow of life.
Life has challenges and joys, so it has ups and downs. It’s true, we want to try not to ride a roller coaster in life, but we are meant to have experiences in life. We are meant to taste black, white and all the shades of grey which come inbetween.
Experience and enjoy your life. Love your life. Be with your life, feel the shades of grey or of black or of white and then see what is left over. Let life flow in this way. As we are with our lives, as they are and without pushing wonder on them or seeing them in a poor light, we will see our lives as they truly are. We will see what is worth loving and we will see how we are loved.
This is a powerful way to improve your energy, raising your vibration. Whether you are looking to feel better and enjoy your life more or to improve what the Law of Attraction brings to you, putting yourself in your flow this way will improve your life and what you experience.
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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys. Learn how to flow your energy- an enjoyable and quick process using the Golden Flow System at www.Golden-Flow-System.com
“When you are concerned about something like a problem at work, and you do not let it flow, you keep it with you. When you welcome the problem you allow it to flow through you and your Sources Energy, which changes the problem. When you do not allow it to flow, and the problem persists, and it continues to bother you, and it continues to eat away at you, the problem becomes a place where your energy is stuck, and yet, the problem doesn’t truly exist.”
The Oracle
Who You Choose To Be
Just like seasons have weather themes, so to speak, time does to. I am always focusing on the theme of the energy at hand and guiding my students as to what course of action is most in the flow of the energy at hand so that they may make the most out of what is offered to them. In this way, they are able to get the most bang for their buck, as they say, by working with universal flow.
The theme this year is really about becoming Who we truly are, and I have spoken about this quite a bit. It is about choosing Who we want to be and what we want to experience. When we choose Who we want to be the Law of Attraction (LOA) then sets out to begin to use the energies within us to attract the corresponding experiences to us. In other worlds, just the choice to Be who we wish to be activates energy within us that LOA then uses to attract experiences to us.
Thus, it is crucial to always choose Who we wish to be, especially this year when universal energy is behind us empowering our choices.
I was listening to Neal Donald Walsh the other day. He said that no one does anything that he or she does not choose to in this life. This statement is powerful and true. Although some may say that there are times when they do not have a choice, the point that Neal is making is that we only find ourselves not having a choice when we are empowering an inner victim. We find that we always have a choice in every situation in life when we realize that we have that power. In other words, we need to choose to have this power and then we do.
How To Choose
Becoming Who you wish to be is a rather simple choice that you just make. Within us all there are several possibilities – each person has several interests and/or urgings that tell them about several different people they could be or are. For example, you can be a parent, a friend, a lawyer, a mystic, an honest person and a liar. Just the same, you can choose to leave being a liar behind to become an honest parent. You can leave being a mystic behind to become a dedicated lawyer.
Excuses Not To Choose
It Is Not In The Cards For Me:
Sometimes people think that destiny means that we cannot choose Who we will be. They confuse energetic strengths with destiny because they think that a pre-destined path means that they can’t choose Who they will be. However, this is untrue. You can be Who you wish to be and you can do what you choose, as Neal says. There is no force in the universe that will work against your will and turn you into something you are not. On the contrary, the universe and your Source Energy are actually working to help you become empowered enough that you will allow yourself to become Who and What you truly are, choices that are given to you. A pre-destined event or opportunity can bring you more of Who you are and it can help you, but it never hinders or binds.
Being at a place to empower ourselves and to realize that we can choose Who we are for ourselves is meant to be a natural place of maturity. It is meant to be a part of our process of becoming adults and of being at a point in our lives where we will take on the responsibility for ourselves and for choosing Who “ourselves” is. And yet, this natural stage of life is one that many people have difficulty reaching and coming from.
Life Doesn’t Allow Me:
For many people it is as if they feel that everything has a price in life and that they simply can’t really have what they want, so how could they ever be Who they truly wish to be? These types of feelings are quite common and can be overcome. It is true, none of us are perfect, nor are we meant to be. It is true every person makes mistakes and has weaknesses. Life doesn’t reward or punish based on this; that is simply not how energy and life work. On the contrary, life doesn’t reward or punish us at all, we do. Just feeling as though life is unfair to us is something we place upon ourselves.
See Things Clearly
Why not focus on the light within ourselves? Why not focus on the dreams and desires we hold within ourselves? Why not remember that we make our own choices and that we are the ones determining what energies we activate within us? Why don’t we determine what energies LOA will use to attract our experiences to us?
We all have positive thoughts and negative thoughts, but our thoughts and our feelings do not determine Who we are. Instead, out of all the hurtful feelings and all the violent thoughts that we do have, what determines Who we are is simply what we choose to be. I’m sorry to say that we all have a violent, negative side- but I’m happy to say that, just the same, we all have a beautiful, joyful and loving side. What we seek from within ourselves and what side of ourselves we choose to Be and act from- that is what determines Who we are. These are the simple and powerful choices that determine what kind of person we are. The intention we hold makes the choice to bring forth the energy we choose within ourselves and that is the choice Neal speaks of. We always have a choice as to Who we wish to be and the more often we choose the same aspect of ourselves, be it dark, light, confidant or insecure, that is the energy we activate and increase within ourselves. That is the energy LOA then uses in our lives.
At each turn in life things happen, but how we respond to them and Who we choose to be is what determines what our life will be like tomorrow and Who we are today.
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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.
Problems abound. Not what we want an abundance of, by any means.
All people have problems, they are a part of life. However, there is a big difference between those who attract solutions to their problems and those who just accumulate more problems.
You may credit those who attract solutions to their problems as being fortunate, blessed or having a good attitude. You may also think that those with problems have them because the world isn’t fair or because they have bad karma- and both hold some truth.
The real magnetic force that LOA (Law of Attraction) utilizes in attraction solutions or problems to a person’s life is their energy. Our energy is the number one writer in the script of our lives. Energy can be flowing, connected with our Source Energy or it can be stagnant, blocked and resistant. Given this it may become obvious that solutions are attracted when energy is fluid and that more problems are attracted when energy is resistant.
What tends to not be obvious is what feelings and thoughts of ours are fluid and which are resistant.
A girlfriend of mine who I had been getting closer to had some hard times last winter because her business, of course, depended upon the economy. Times being what they are, the artwork she sells stopped selling, so her financial situation became difficult. Unfortunately, she allowed this to affect our friendship, and the truth is that this affected and soured all of her life. The fact that our friendship became compromised really had nothing to do with me, but it became a problem in my life. My problem: my girlfriend was no longer connecting with me, made assumptions about me that made no sense and I was getting a bit of a cold shoulder from her.
Assumptions can be easy to fix, you simply explain what is actual. Within our friendship the assumption was corrected, which helped the friendship. However, there was still space between us and some uncomfortable feelings.
Even though my friend’s financial problems had nothing to do with me, I reached out to connect to her and to explain the assumption. Most people would see that I had done no wrong, so to speak, and still extended to correct the assumption. Most people might, therefore, think that there was nothing left for me to do and that this problem wasn’t my fault and that I had tried to correct it anyways, so now I would just be left with the problem and no solution.
These things are true, however, when we live by the LOA then we can’t stope here. Instead we must recognize that my energy was really the cause of my having attracted the experience. So, I looked at my energy. This is where most people have a hard time.
To look at my energy and to see where it wasn’t flowing I looked at my energy and my feelings. I looked to see any places where I was feeling unhappy, angry or like I had been treated unfairly by my friend. When I found any feelings that I hadn’t sat with, I then worked on allowing them to flow. Until we get ourselves back into our own flow, we can’t hope for our energy to be flowing. Instead, we have to assume that our energy is not flowing and is attracting more problems, even problems which seem to have no solution, like the one with my friend.
I sat with this – it felt rediculous, as I had only taken actions to support her. It felt unfair and it made me sad, sad that it was more important to her to feel as though I was withdrawing my friendship because she was having financial difficulties (obviously she doesn’t know me at all!).
All of these feelings needed to flow; all of these feelings had energy behind them that was causing a block and keeping me from attracting a solution to the problem. Once I worked with this energy and allowed these feelings to be felt and to flow, my energy shifted.
Now, you may expect that I’m going to tell you that LOA attracted a solution for me, which would make sense. Better still, my friend called me, as if nothing in the world had ever been wrong, as if someone waved a magic wand and made the problem disappear.
That was just fine. After all, who needs a solution to a problem that no longer exists?
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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys. Learn how to flow your energy- an enjoyable and quick process using the Golden Flow System at www.Golden-Flow-System.com
Resistence-Free
“Your dreams are inevitable – how long it takes them to arrive is just dependent on how much resistance you choose to hold.”
-The Oracle
I love what this world is coming to!
Yes, there are a lot of problems in the world, most of which are getting worse, but they are only getting worse because people have resistance. You can just imagine what that the Law of Attraction does with that resistance!
The world is truly coming to a place where authenticity will be easier to find within ourselves and where being in our flow will become more and more normal. Authenticity is already natural, though most of us lose site of this and we become normal and in-authentic, like most others. So, you might say that our world is coming to a place where it is becoming easier to return to our natural state of being. That natural, authentic state of being is resistance-free, at which point our magnetism for attracting is huge.
Resistance is a block to our energetic flow. Resistances block the energy of our Source coming down to us, impeding our receiving that energy.
Why not have a resistance-free reality? Why not notice what is bothering you, what is rubbing you the wrong way and release the resistance? Why not allow yourself to be aware of the reistance you have to yourself, flow what you don’t like and come to a place where you love yourself? Love is the most powerful magnetic attractor.
Life is simple. Realizing a resistance-free reality is simple. Us coming to the place where we choose this isn’t necessesarily easy. But the world is helping us, with all its problems. The problems make it easier for us to realize we don’t need problems or resistance. Just joy and love.
And in joy and love we come to live a resistance-free reality!
Why is Resistance So Hard To Let Go Of?
The truth is there is only one reason: we don’t want to let go. Generally we don’t want to let go because we have a misperception within us that incorrectly thinks that if we are not resisting then we won’t get what we want? 
As if closing the door will allow new friends to come in! Sounds silly, I know, but that is what resistance does.
Stop and think about what you are resisting. I’m very sorry to say that most of us are resisting something all of the time. We are resisting being loved because we think we’ll be hurt; we resist having the life we want because subconsciously we are afraid of what we want. For example, I have a student who has a strong desire for a relationship. However, she is also very weary of men and their motivations. Under these circumstances, how will she be open enough to allow men to be themselves and to come forward in a relationship? Her resistance keeps her from allowing men to get closer to her. On the other hand, if she chose to let this resistance flow away then she would find several men knocking at her door.
Nothing to Fear
In my above example, my student resists relationship because she has been hurt in the past. However, why fear what you don’t want or what has happened in the past? Why resist what you desire in the present? The only reason to resist your desires is because you are assuming that your desire will include something painful or unwanted. Why make that assumption? Why not paint a dream for yourself of your life the way you want it minus what you don’t want?
Your Source Energy does not seek to bring you a great life with a little torture on the side! Your Source Energy is you! It is important for you to know what you do and don’t want. Resist neither of them and then have the resistance-free and joyful life you dream of!
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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle. Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys.
Authetically Selfish LOA
Kalyn, did you say that being Selfish will increase my ability to use LOA (Law of Attraction)?
Yes! Absolutely! However, there is an important detail that you can’t miss here. Being Selfish with a capital “S” will increase your vibration and, therefore, what LOA brings to you. On the other hand, being selfish with a lower case “s” will decrease your vibration and de-enhance the energetic vibration LOA uses in your attracting.
Let’s start by talking about the difference between being Selfish and being selfish:
You need to begin by recognizing that your life, your choices and your feelings can come from one of two places within you; they can come from your authenticity or your preconceived self. By preconceived self I mean that false self or ego self. More specifically I mean that part you that has ideas and beliefs about what should be.
Too many people have a lot of ideas and beliefs that define life and how it ought to work. For example, here in the US people, generally speaking, believe that babies should sleep in cribs by their selves, while in Japan generally speaking, people believe babies should sleep with their parents or grandparents, sharing a bed.
Regardless of where or how you believe babies should sleep, what’s truly important to notice is that the actions we take regarding where we put our baby to sleep can come from our Self, our authenticity, or our self, our preconceived self that is made up of our beliefs. In this example if a mother made her decision from her Self then she would seek out the authentic way to put her baby to sleep. Instead of focusing on her preconceived belief about how society thinks her baby should sleep she would do what was right to her. This means that she would make the choice that fit her present needs and her baby’s. She would make a choice in her Golden Flow ™ such that no matter where the baby slept or who the baby slept with, the mother would feel peaceful, loving and calm, having done the right thing for herself and her joyful baby.
Having made the right choice, she will have activated the energy of her Self. This authentic choice will automatically connect her to her Source Energy, raising her energy and increasing the beneficial things that LOA will now bring into her life.
On the other hand, here in the US a common experience for new mothers happens when she forces herself to leave her child crying in their crib as she closes the door and begins to cry herself, believing that she is doing the right thing by putting the child to sleep alone. Because she has based her choice on information she has been taught in the past, as opposed to her present experience, her concept of what it means to be a good mother is lowering her energetic vibration, which is causing the pain and the crying for her baby and for herself.
Change your thinking to become more Selfish
What is most important in any situation in life is for you to always feel as though you are doing your best and making choices that are beneficial. The only way to do this is to focus on what you need in the now moment. This means placing your authentic Self first, which your past cannot define. People often confuse this with being self-centered and they think that this would mean indulging their whims without considering others.
However, the truth is that being indulgent and careless is not the same as being authentic. Indulgence and self-centeredness are only present when we are basing our thoughts, feelings and beliefs on our past. People only act selfishly and self-centered when painful past experiences are making them feel unloved, therefore they are unwilling to share because they are afraid there won’t be enough for them; when their past experience showed them that people are unfriendly so that they assume the person they are meeting now will be the same way, causing them to hold back. Living from the past this way is what causes anyone to miss the now moment and lose their authenticity.
When you are in the flow of your authenticity you are more concerned with what you are experiencing now: what you need, what your loved ones need or what a situation needs. In your authenticity you are making mature and wise choices.
Coming from the energies of maturity and wisdom can’t help but increase your energetic vibration. Become Selfish, authentic, and the Golden Flow™ of your now moment will connect you to your Source Energy. Your Source Energy is an endless stream of abundance, love and wisdom, and offering this vibration for LOA to attract your life from will create a full and divine life for you.
“In order to manifest you must be like a child. Children are quite certain that they will manifest their desires. They don’t know lack yet, so they know their desire is coming. Be like a child, know that your desires will come. Shift your energy from a place of not having, to a place of having. Shift your energy from doubting the manifestation of your desires, to a place of absolute certainty.”
The Oracle
“To have the dreams you desire, you need to be willing to change. You need to be willing to change from not having your dreams, to having them–from not being the you of your dreams, to being him/her. Allow that change in your life.”
The Oracle
Question: I love this quote but am not sure I fully understand it – to see him instead of me? Can you explain this please Kalyn – this could be my final frontier as am only kind, only loving, always sharing and always feeling grateful and visualising yet some block is there as am not allowing my abundance to flourish. Have so much spiritual knowledge yet unless God has a purpose I am not sure of then I have missed something in this…
Bless you – I look forward to your thoughts
Answer:
This quote refers to our self image. We all see ourselves a certain way: for example I have a student who saw himself as not being very worthy or capable in life. However, in his dreams and desires he saw himself as someone with a business of his own and a family.
As he has allowed himself to see the “him” with a business and family, he has begun to identify with a more confidant and capable part of himself (and has been developing this). Today he is engaged and has had his first small business for over a year.
He really began to shift his life when he shifted his self-image, how he saw himself. The more he saw himself as the confident version of himself, the more he became it.
In your case, you want to start to see yourself as the you with abundance. Notice what he is like and really become him in your thoughts, feelings and actions.
Blessings,
Kalyn
(from my new blog at www.lawsofabundance.com)
Universal Law: As within, so without-
Is abundance something that comes from without? Without meaning outside of you.
People look for abundance outside of their selves.
They think it comes from money they earn, which is true and untrue.
They think it comes from doing hard work, which is true and untrue.
They think it depends on how much money there is in the world, which is true and untrue.
They think that there may not be enough for them, which is true and untrue.
You have to know what Abundance is if you hope to know where it comes from. Abundance is an energy, not printed cash. Therefore, abundance comes in many forms – you can have an abundance of money, of love, of food, friends, joy and so on.
People often think of abundance in terms of money, which only makes sense. However, if you limit the energy of abundance to making money then you will find yourself on the wrong track because you will be coming from without.
Abundance is an energy that we have to tune into and allow in our lives. It is a natural flow from our Source Energy and a flow that we need. When we don’t limit abundance to money from without then we open to the natural abundance that our Source has for us. We all experience some form of abundance in our lives, even if you don’t think that you do. You can’t help it, it is a natural part of our universe. The trick is to begin to recognize this. As you choose to recognize that you do experience some form of abundnace in your life then you begin to tap into this energy.
For example, my three year old daughter, who took the photo of her feet above, experiences abundance in many forms – though not necessarily monetarily. Sure, at the age of three it’s true that she doesn’t have money, but when she wants to hold money she knows where to find it. In other words, my daughter experiences abundance in many forms. One form is in her ability to take an abundance of photos (thank God for digital film/memory cards!) She doesn’t find many limits in her life: unlimited photos, unlimited laughter, playing and so on.
Although some people may not be in an allowing place to recognize that my daughter is experiencing abundance, hopefully you will because herein lies the secret of this universal law! When we experience abundance within, which my daughter does, then we can’t help but find abundance without. When we are joyful inside and when we allow the energy of abundance to come into us then we slowly (but hopefully quickly) and surely begin to find abundance reflected outside ourselves.
In part this is because we are holding the energy of abundance and, therefore, acitivating the Law of Attraction to bring abundance into our lives. It is similar, but the Law as within, so without more specifically stated that what you are within yourself you will see reflected outside of yourself; it’s not about what you will attract to yoruself but rather about what already is here within yourself and outside of yourself. It is a mirror.
What is within yourself? Are you finding the abundance you desire inside and outside of yourself? If not, realize what abundance is and begin to allow the energy of this aspect of what you are within yourself so that what is then reflected back to you, as Who your truly are, will match the natural abundance that you truly are.
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Kalyn B Raphael has been a teacher of spirituality for nearly ten years specializing in abundance & manifesting. She works with clients applying financial spiritual coaching to their lives, so that spiritual principals and universal laws are applied to their finances and their abundance. Kalyn and her husband Kris created a CD & workbook set, Manifesting Abundance, to help people improve their abundance. Kalyn also works with private clients (contact her for an appointment) and is creating a financial class for this summer. To register for class please go to http://essence-love.com/financial-abundance-class~
“We are Spirit, your Source Energy, Higher Self, Creator or whatever you call us.
We seek to bring you that which you desire, as it is that only through living the fulfillment of your desires can you evolve.
If you are thus seeking to increase your vibration in your life, then you seek to improve the energy in your life so that you may realize your hopes, dreams and desires.
To improve or raise the energy in your life, just allow your life to bring to you a problem, a challenge or something that bothers you. Address this with the energy that you desire to raise yourself to and watch your energy increase and your life unfold as you would have it.
We wish you the life you dream of~
In other words, when you address your problem as if you were the you who is living your dreams, as if you were the You who has already realized the life that you desire, then you will address your problems with a higher vibrating energy. Some people think that life brings them “tests” to see if they are ready for the next level. This is untrue, as life only brings you what you asked for.
And what you asked for was your dream, whether you are asking for it consciously or subconsciously. You are always moving in the direction of what you dream of and who you dream of becoming. Life responds by bringing you the energy that you are attracting to yourself, using LOA, through your dream.
When your dreams come to you, knocking on your door, they may look, at first, like a problem or something undesirable. They are not; they are simply the higher vibrating dream you asked for that you simply do not yet recognize, as you are still in the process of raising your energy.
Open the door to your problems and your joys, as they both are a part of the experience of your life that is raising your energy and that is bringing you the life you dream of.”
Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle
