Kalyn Raphael

Perception & You

Have you ever noticed or gotten frustrated with, what seems like, things changing?

In other words, have you ever gone down the same road to get to the same place and felt like the turn off wasn’t there? Or, hopefully you have had a better experience: We headed down to San Miguel de Allende.  Last time the trip took 26 hours. You’d think that the same trip would take the same amount of time, but things changed. All of a sudden there was another highway that we could take, which was a smoother ride – and shorter. Once we crossed the boarder the same highway we had taken last time also went quicker and seemed different. More beautiful and with less toll booths.

How could this be? How can the same highway on the same road give us such a different experience? Sure, a new highway may give a different result, but how does the same highway do this?

The answer is easy – we are bending physicality. While the rules of physicality, or form, are constant one thing is not. That one thing is energy.

When you are in your flow, your energy is different and the energy you attract is different. When you are out of your flow your energy is vibrating lower than when you are in the flow and what you attract vibrates lower as well. Another way of saying this is that in a higher energy, or your flow (what is often called the vortex) even the same highway provides a different experience all together.

This difference is accounted for by the shift in perception we experience from the energy we hold. But, for now this is not relevant.

What is relevant is that when we get into our flow of well-being, we shift our energy and our whole experience. If you don’t like something you are experiencing or if you want to change what you experience in the future, the place to focus is on yourself. Get yourself into your Source Flow and your life will change, improve.

Too often our egos, or the parts of us that are out of the flow and justify being here, tell us that we don’t deserve to be in a better place. Or there is some other reason or excuse for our not being in a better place. Do you buy this?

If you are not in a better place, you have believed that you belong where you do. After all, that is why you are experiencing what you are experiencing. No worries though, you can change this.

Even if you are in your flow you can change this and improve it! Do so, decide for yourself that I am right and that you can improve your life, you can attract what you prefer. After all, I’m doing it so why can’t you?

Welcome your experience and let it flow. Take a few minutes out of your busy day to talk to your Source and tell it/you that you are ready for a change. You are ready to be the You that is in a better place. And then allow that better place to come to you.

Use the amazing resources that are available in our day and age – use the free Golden Flow(TM) process we offer at http:golden-flow-system.com – use what ever it takes, because you are worth it! You are meant to have the experience you prefer, even if you are going down the same road.

Love & Light,

Kalyn

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

To learn more about a new class on attracting using The Law of Attraction, The Laws of Self & The Law of Repetition to use your Source Energy to attract the life you prefer by filling out the contact us form.

Life

Every day I marvel at how amazing life is. It knows us better than we know ourselves and life knows how to take care of us in ways that we barely comprehend, if we are lucky. Life knows what will suit us and what will serve us better than we do because the Law of Attraction simply allows the energy that we are to come forward.

This is a part of the design of life. It brings to us the energy that we are to us so that we may be guided in the right direction every time. In every experience we have, we can allow ourselves to become aware of what we do or do not like about the experience and we can change it. We can became aware of what desires of ours are not being met and we can change this; we can become aware of what we require to be in the flow of our Source Energy and we can allow this to come forward.

The Guidance From Source

We are well provided for by our lives or our Source Energy. Whether we recognize it or not, we are always given what we need to shift our own energy. We have intelligence, the ability to discern, the ability to make choices and the ability to change ourselves so that we may become who we prefer to be.

One of the most powerful and effective tools, or methods, that we have to change ourselves is our imagination. Our imagination is a fun tool because, like energy, it is unlimited. Anyone can imagine anything they choose, which we see in creative story tellers. Because imagination is energy and operates the same way energy does, our imaginations can plant the seed of a new experience for us. Like any seed that is watered and cared for, our imagined idea can grow, attracting more energy to it, until it has enough energetic mass to attract form to it. Another way of saying this is that once we have created a large mass of energy through our imaginations, the Law of Attraction then uses this to attract experiences, people, places and things into our lives.

What You Require

We all require things in life, such as food and shelter. One of the most spiritually advanced concepts that I have ever come across and learned was that what we require, or what we need, is a positive thing, not a negative one. This is to say that what we require, or need, should be seen as a positive thing and not as a weakness within ourselves. People rarely qualify their needs as either genuine requirements for their lives or indulgences that can be damaging, such as the indulgence of an addiction. Spiritually speaking, our genuine needs are the things we need in order to be healthy and whole. These needs are not the needs that are spoken of when an alcoholic says that they need a drink. Quite the contrary, genuine needs are a part of the amazing guidance system that our Source Energy and life have set up to help us along our paths. Our genuine needs point us in the direction of our well-being.

Allow

As multidimensional beings, however, our genuine needs go much deeper than just the needs for food and shelter. The happiest and healthiest people in the world find that they have emotional needs as well, such as the need to have good friends, to be loved and to love their selves; to have their dreams come true, to express their selves and to feel a connection with their Source. A whole person truly has balance in all areas of their lives.

Of course, no one is expecting us to be perfect and have everything we need or desire in life.  However, our Source Energy is giving us the guidance and the ability to raise our energy and put ourselves in the flow of our well-being.

Again, one of the most powerful ways for us to do so is through our imagination. Our imagination allows us to see what we need, what we would prefer instead of what we have, and what we require in order to be in our well being physically, emotionally and mentally. When we use imagination this way, it truly fulfills the need, or the genuine requirement, we have. Our imagination can be used to begin to attract our genuine preferences into our lives, the things that will create well-being in us.

If we were to try to imagine another drink when we have an alcohol addiction we would find that our well-being state is not being met. On the contrary, we would simply be separating ourselves more from our well-being and increasing the addiction.

Fooling ourselves into thinking that we are using imagination to create well-being within ourselves when we are really using fantasy and creating more separation is a common mistake. People often reach for fantasy because it tends to relieve any pain they are feeling, just as a drink or a hit of a drug would, in the moment. In the long run, however, it does not create a new energy for us, the way imagination does. On the contrary, in fantasy our energy leaves us; it goes out to the object of our focus, such as the drink.

Losing energy this way can be very detrimental to us because it decreases our ability to attract what we prefer in our lives.  We increase our ability when we use the guidance in our lives to know what our genuine requirements, or needs, are and use a tool, like imagination, to attract what we prefer for ourselves in our lives.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

To learn more about a new class on attracting using The Law of Attraction, The Laws of Self & The Law of Repetition to use your Source Energy to attract the life you prefer by filling out the contact us form.

Question:

Thanks for your answer. I have had and have problems i havnt handled yet and were , are too much for me, including things I cant personallx control. Who said life only gives us what we can handle or that we are given problems to overcomethem? That person wasnt a god I dont think. Its like a lot of new age sayings. There is an answer for everything. While many may be true I am in the habit of questioning their validity. Maybe my problems will be resolved under the right circumstances and after some time. But then hnw much time? You haveto know what difficulties are in peoples lives personally. Itr ok for some person, maybe not you to have life coaching clients or sell a personal development course. Life is not so good for a number of people and many would like to improve things if they could. Its easier to be in the flow if you feel good and life is going well for you. I wrote about life flow many yearsago. My friend was into it even before me. I only have mobile internet at present. Im ok but mainly as Im a strong person. In my view I have to be connected to universal flow, people and opportunities. I spend much time alone when not at art school and work. Ive studied lots of these self development subjects before. I do have lots of good things in my life too. Many will inprove over time. I have very little money and much debt so cant do much yet in many areas including seeing my son. So i dont think flow wil solve that immediately. I am always open to possibilities though and not that negative. Just with healthy realism too. Anyway if you have problems as you say maybe I can help you as i have had lots of life experience ok?

Best wishes X

Answer:

Hi X,

I appreciate the offer, but I see that I need to clarify.

I am a spiritual life coach. At this point in my personal path I don’t have “problems” in my life so much as challenges. What I mean by this is that I no longer have the experience of having more than I can handle and I know how to handle things. I know how to work with the flow of life at which point my dreams have come true.

I have worked with many people over the years and I have seen a lot of people go from feeling overwhelmed in life and like they don’t know how or feel they can’t make things work to turning this around. I have had clients go from being unhappy employees to changing careers, status or starting their own businesses.

I have had clients who have a very difficult time attracting or keeping relationships, especially healthy ones, to them attracting the right person and getting married.

I think it is wonderful that you question things. You should question everything, including the way you think and the choices you make in life, as this is what shifts your energy, your life and what you experience.

? Kalyn

Unfortunately, I see so mnay people I work with not being honest with themselves.And this just attracts frustration and disillusionment.

Don Juan, from Castaneda’s books, spoke of the importance of being brtally honest with the self. This is because when we lie and tell ourselves what we want to hear, we later run into problems when things are not working out the way we would prefer.

We are all extraordinary in the eyes of Source. This means that we each have our own gifts and we are each a unique being, even though we are a part of the hole. We are meant to live the joy of life and of feeling the love that our Source Energy has for us, but this becomes difficult or impossible when we are not honest with ourselves.

The little white lies are some of the worst. They seem innocent and unimportant, however they really activate energies that remove clarity from our lives. One of my current clients is having a difficult time with this. On the one hand, he likes to tell himself that things are the way he wants them to be, but then becomes frustrated when he encounters abrasive experiences in his life. For example, he likes to tell himself that he likes people and likes being around people but removes himself from social situations quickly. He says that he likes being alone too. The white lie about liking to be around people is causing a split, which you can easily see. The statement that he likes to be around people, but avoids social situations and the statement that he likes being alone tell a different story. They reveal the contradiction, caused by the lie. The difficulty is then compounded when he has difficulties in his relationship. He loves his partner, but can’t figure out why they are experiencing tension. He can’t understand why they don’t communicate well and he is perplexed at why they sometimes prefer not to spend time together when the opportunity arises.

Of course, the answer is obvious when we are not believing the lie. The problem is that he doesn’t do well interacting with people.

Shen we are honest with ourselves we are empowered to create the changes we want since we know what the situation is all about. In the case of my client, when he started to get honest with himself he recognized the problem. Needless to say, he also saw that he had been avoiding the truth because it hurt some to see that he wanted to be a person who knew how to connect with others, but was not.

Knowing this, he now was able to make an empowerd choice. He chose to welcome what he did not like in himself, namely his inability to connect with others the way he would like to, and began to flow this. As he shifted the energy that was out of alignment in himself, he found that his ability to interract with others, including his mate, improved.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

Learn more about the Golden Flow™ system & download a free audio process at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

“All that truly exists is the Now moment. However, if you are going
to go to your past, use it wisely.

Use the memories you have to remember how many dreams you used to have and notice how they have come forward.
Use the memories to remember how overwhelmed you felt with your problems and notice how you overcame them.
Use the memories to remember how you have wanted love in your life and remember how it has come.

That would be an aligned use of getting out of your Now moment, as it would increase your confidence that you can live the life you prefer.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle

Travel through time~ Join us as we enter the world of energy on our Teotihuacan Journey http://mystical-odyssey.com/teotihuacansma09

Kalyn and I are very excited about the information coming through now. Kalyn was up most the night receiving amazing guidance and insight on the True Meaning of Relationship, How Relationship is the Fastest way to Accelerate Your Manifestation, and How to Create and Maintain the Relationship of Your Dreams.

We have so much material to share with you, and it sometimes seems like there is hardly the time to get it all to you, whether in writing, videos or other
recordings.

When Kalyn and I met eleven years ago, it changed both our lives forever in ways unimaginable. Sharing and merging our inner and outer worlds with a common Intent to grow and evolve into Who we are, empowered both of us to live the life of our dreams.

In a conscious relationship 1 plus 1 does not equal 2. The combining of energies in a spiritual partnership leads to seemingly infinite expansion of both partners’ worlds.

We have so much to share with you and will be doing so. You can begin by joining us in The Oracle Gathering Tuesday. You can do so via your web browser or call in by phone.

Go to http://oracle-love.eventbrite.com

Talk to you soon.

Love and Light,

K2 (Kristopher and Kalyn)

Where Your Dreams Become Real

In Your Source’s Golden Flow

There is a place where your energy flows into you and your life-  it is at your core. Our consciousness is what runs through our lives, animating us into this physical experience. Using our will, our consciousness goes where we want it to via our attention. Our consciousness can flow into divine places of our choosing or to places of difficulty and misery, again of our choosing.

Our consciousness is divided into seven layers of consciousness within us, one at each chakra. As many people know, each chakra holds an energetic theme for us to work through, the whole of which works towards our evolution.

Everyone has a chakra that needs to come into greater balance. For example, if a person’s root chakra is out of balance then they will experience problems that pertain to safety and security in their lives. A chakra out of balance means that the chakra is not in alignment to Source flow, which has no lack of safety or security. Another way of saying this is that the flow of our Source Energy, which is the magic that is our vital life force, is not flowing evenly and smoothly through our chakra. Like water entering a tunnel at an angle, only part of that Source flow is making it into our tunnel and flowing through us. The rest is spilling out.

When we are born we are fully connected to our Source Energy, which most of us see or sense in the presence of a newborn. We often exclaim that an infant is still bringing through divine energy. It is only through the living of life and a series of experiences that initiate us into the density of every day life that we are emotionally and energetically wounded, such that aspects of us fall out of our flow.

These parts of our consciousness that fall out of our flow then attract experiences to us that are, generally speaking, characterized by pain and suffering. Simply put, any part of us, namely of our energy, that is outside our own Source’s flow experiences energies of separation.

In the Flow state, or in our Golden Flow™, we are in alignment at our chakras and consciousness. We experience the love and the light of the higher vibrating energies of our divinity, or our Source Energy. In this state we can’t help but return to our natural, authentic being which experiences the energies of our Source, energies of endless abundance, love, joy and so on.

More and more people are remembering and awakening to the fact that a life riddled with problems or pain is not authentic, nor is it what we are meant to experience. People are coming to realize that they need to get themselves into the flow, that place in life where things work out for us, where our lives are harmonious and where life is at we know it is meant to be.

Using the Golden Flow™ system, anyone can choose to bring their energy back into that aligned flow. Anyone can learn to connect with the whole of their lives, allowing their Source to shine the divine light that we all truly are through our consciousness.

When our consciousness is thus aligned to our own divinity in our Flow state we find the place where we are Who we have always wanted to be and Who we truly are, in addition to finding the fulfillment of our dreams.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws through classes, seminars and on journeys.

Learn more about the Golden Flow™ system & download a free audio process at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

It’s Sunday today, we arrived on Thursday. As always, the August jungle is hot, humid, thick and captivating. Of course, it feels hotter to me than it has in the past, but no doubt it always feels this way since I am accustomed to the high desert’s arid, hot summers in Santa Fe.

As always, our hotel is larger than life. A glass of Champaign greeted us at the Premier Lobby, one of four lobbies. Our room was a welcome site – air conditioning, a towel elephant with a flower on it, a fruit basket and beach towels ready to go.

So three days have flown by. We attended Troy & Tina’s wedding rehearsal dinner Friday and the wedding Saturday. Tina is looking beautiful, like a soft, gentle goddess and Troy has been cool as a cucumber in his handsome, ragged way. His day has come and one of his biggest dreams has come true. Now that is a sight to see, I wouldn’t have missed this for anything.

The Mayan wedding ceremony was wonderful. Copal smoke sailed by in the ocean breeze as the couple were blessed, bathed (gently) in beans, were given wedding flowers to wear and had their souls blended with flower petals.

There is no arguing it, this is paradise. The all-inclusive hotel provides delectable meals, unlimited drinks and other such amenities to take care of your every need. Attending a wedding here has been magical from the ocean’s breath to the pre-historic-looking birds flying over head and the Mayan sounds at the ceremony.

As if this weren’t enough, I have been receiving many energetic blessings myself. I have a calling to go to a pyramid of Coba where I know I will re-connect with the energy of the past lives I have seen here and with the messages that are meant to guide me in my own journey through life.

I consider myself blessed to live in my flow.

I consider myself very fortunate for many reasons and one of these is because I have a couple of things in my life where my heart opens. One of these is in the Riviera Maya.

The flight from Albuquerque has gone through Houston so that we have been traveling over half the day.

As we touch down in this mystical place, stepping off the airplane usually gives me a small rush of heaven, relaxation and joy. This time is even more magical. Our first steps outside of the airport and into the thick, dense humid jungle air begin to open my heart. As if I were walking through a magical machine that could attune my energy and myself, within minutes I can feel a fluttering of energy in my heart, a transformation occurring that opens my heart and brings me into a more heavenly connection with my Source Energy. I am home.

Even the hour drive in the shuttle van doesn’t erase the buzz of bliss I am enjoying; the feeling of being loved.

Can you imagine being somewhere that makes you feel as though you are being held, coddled and loved by the jungle all around you, so that only by opening your eyes do you see that you are not being touched? Can you imagine being caressed, kissed and so welcome that your whole emotional body lets go and comes to a place of such deep connection that it knows that all is well in this loving, all-knowing universe?

To come to this place of expansion and knowing is what I see as the Mayan words “inlak- esh” meaning your are me, I am you. That place of recognizing that there is no worry in my life, or yours, that is valid or real because the truth is that all is one and the One is truly only love.

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Kalyn B Raphael is a Spiritual Life Coach, Co-founder of the Golden Flow™ System, a published author and channels The Oracle (www.Oracle-Light.com). Kalyn has worked with people for nearly ten years helping them significantly improve their lives in accordance to universal laws. Kalyn works with people one-on-one, in classes, seminars and on journeys. Learn how to flow your energy- an enjoyable and quick process using the Golden Flow System at www.Golden-Flow-System.com

“There is no such thing as love outside of your Self.  Although you can be loved, be loving, or be lovable, the truth is all of them are just the state of love.  And you can only have the state of love when you love yourself.  And when you have that state of love in yourself, it can be reflected in your relationship.  Love is an energy you emanate.  No one can emanate you.  They can only reflect the love that you are.”

Kalyn Raphael, The Oracle