The Loving Romantic Relationship

by Kalyn on March 30, 2009

“When love is present, you feel as though the sun is ever shinning.” The Oracle

One of the true purposes of relationship is a great mystery to most.

Relationship is often used to make us feel better, to make us feel special. These are a natural occurrence in relationships because as we come together we merge and experience the oneness that the universe is truly made of.

However, most people use this aspect of relationship to make up for their short comings, which can be damaging to relationships. Our relationships are actually meant to do the opposite: they are meant to help bring out those short comings and turn them around, with the love and support of our mate, so that we turn these into strengths.

“Behind every great man there is a great woman”

This is an old saying that many of us, including myself, used to greatly misunderstand. For us, this meant that a subservient, hidden woman had her place and identity only in her marriage.

However, as most of us have evolved and matured, we have come to see the true meaning of this great quote. It truly speaks to the gender flows, illuminating the assertive and visible presence of the masculine and the receptive and often unseen quality of the feminine. The feminine has been misunderstood in our world for so long and seen as weak because it is unseen. However, this perception is greatly shifting and becoming more clear as people come to realize the true power of the feminine.

The unseen is far greater than the seen; the unseen is connected to Spirit or Source, such that a woman in her receptive flow will hold a powerful connected to knowledge and knowingness of the world of energy and things to come.

People are just beginning to realize that a powerful and mysterious woman in her feminine flow can be more powerful than a man in his masculine flow. The masculine flow needs to “go out and conquer the world” while women receive the world, allowing what they want or desire to come to them. A beautiful flow of allowing, wouldn’t you say? All femininity does is it connects with magic and allows magic to bring things to her.

It is not to say that this is how all men and women are or should be. It is just to say that relationship can provide the space and the love for each partner to become Who they truly are. It is only in the intimate connection and deep sharing of our lives that we can touch deeper places in ourselves and bring forth the power of Who we truly are, the Who that is then connected to our Source Energy.

Can you believe your relationship can connect you to your Source Energy? How could it not? Loving romantic relationships give us the feeling and sensation of oneness, and that is a place of connection to our Source, to our best selves and to Who we truly are.dsc03928

Love & Light,
Kalyn

This note is dedicated to Howard & Karen, who are using their relationship to develop intimacy in their selves and to support each other with love as they each grow their own connection to their Source Energy and become Who they truly are.

It is also dedicated to Simon & Sarah who are now taking their first steps in relationship~


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Kalyn has been a spiritual guide helping seekers find the way to connecting with their Source Energy, to their dreams and to their well-being for close to a decade. Kalyn works with Kris, her husband, leading journeys, workshops and also gives classes, working in groups and with individuals. Find out about working wtih Kalyn or about downloading free materials at www.Essence-Love.com

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